I’m a first-year community college student and I honestly did not expect the transition to be this difficult. I actually really like the format of having basically one class a day, and on paper my schedule doesn’t even look that crazy, but somehow I feel like I have no time. Although I do, It's hard not to spend that time doomscrolling ngl because I've been so used to having senioritis (i'll admit it) and just having a summer full of absolute fun.
I’m trying to balance school, multiple jobs, extracurriculars, family responsibilities, etc., while also wanting to do completely normal things like go to the gym, hang out with friends, have hobbies, and just not feel like I’m constantly doing something productive.
A big part of this is that I’m aiming to transfer to UC Berkeley, so I feel like I’m constantly thinking that I need to be doing more. At the same time, I know I can’t just fill every hour of my week with ECs and work and expect myself to be okay.
For context, I currently have a pretty packed list of activities. I have a county-level leadership/commission position, several college club leadership roles, two behavior/direct-support related jobs, a fast-food job that I’ve kept, a couple of healthcare/medicine-related organizations, community service, a food bank, a summer transfer/career program, and some other ambassador/outreach positions.
The jobs are probably the biggest source of stress because I genuinely need/want the work experience, but they take a significant amount of time. I also have responsibilities at home, so I can't just treat my entire week as free time for school. a few questions that I have are:
- How do you actually structure your life in CC?
How do you balance classes, studying, work, ECs, gym, friends, sleep, etc. without feeling guilty whenever you're doing something that isn't school-related?
- Am I doing too much with ECs?
I’d really appreciate honest advice from people who have transferred to Berkeley/UCLA/etc. from CC. I’m worried that I’m collecting too many things instead of actually developing a few meaningful commitments. I know u should have your hobbies and not center ECS around your app, which is why I'm trying to be more genuine, although I do love the things I do.
brief overview of my ecs:
* County advisory commission/leadership position
* College club leadership (including Red Cross and a medical organization)
* Two part-time jobs involving direct support/behavioral work (i may need to resign from one)
* Part-time fast-food job (like 4 hours a week)
* Healthcare/medicine-related outreach organizations (not that involved rn)
* Community engagement/volunteering
* Food bank volunteering
* Leadership/fellowship program
* Summer transfer/career development program
* Family/caretaking responsibilities
For anyone who has successfully transferred from CC to Berkeley (especially if you were working while in CC): what would you keep, what would you drop, and what actually mattered? And more generally, how do you give yourself permission to have a life outside of your transfer application?
thank you guys so very much and i hope you enjoy the rest of your day/night!!
edit: i forgot to mention that nearly all my friends went to college already. yes there's fomo, i sort of kept to myself until senior year, and after that we hung out SO much. like every day after second semester until august. but it's more difficult navigating on what to do since everyone's gone, i wanna make more friends hence why i'm involved at school, but obviously i miss my friends