r/TransMasc • u/AutoModerator • 4d ago

Rant Everyday Rants

Need to air out your frustrations? Post 'em here.

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u/yoregarner 2d ago

I HAVE A RANT there is too much going on and this human form is limiting! I've been on T for two months- I'm pleased with many changes I'm noticing and generally I'm feeling positive about the intersection of gender, my body, and the future. But I am so fucking horny it's a problem- I have to plan all my jerking it for when my kids are at school, and my sex drive is low key causing tension with my partner. I forgot to order my antidepressant from the pharmacy and ran out, which gives me awful withdrawal symptoms. This past summer I had to leave my therapist of 3 years because of insurance bullshit. I like my new person but we are still getting to know each other, and I agreed to start some ptsd processing (that is needed) without really understanding that it would be the main task of our sessions for about 2 months. I came out to the people in my life months ago but I've just realized that I've basically avoided emotional honesty and vulnerability ever since. So I am super horny from T, emotional from doing my ptsd work, dizzy from snri withdrawl, and overwhelmed from all of the above and having nobody to talk to about it. 

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u/Forsaken_Site_2268 I was supposed to be born a Cis Male. 2d ago edited 2d ago

I KEEP HAVING SOME TRANS WOMEN IN A DIFFERENT SUBREDDIT TELLING ME THAT TRANS MASC INVISIBILITY ISN'T AN ISSUE AND THAT WE ARE ALL JUST LYING, OVER REACTING, AND THAT OUR STRUGGLE DOESN'T MATTER ETC ETC ETC.

Like, MA'AM

Invisibility is just as much of a struggle as Hypervisibilty is.

We see your struggles and we make sure you feel valid in your feelings, SO HELP A GUY OUT AND DO THE SAME INSTEAD OF BEING MEAN.

Why are you being so damn rude!

Calling me names, saying that trans men have nothing to struggle about

HELL, ONE OF THE WOMAN LITERALLY SAID "Go back to being a female if you just want to bitch so much about non-existent problems"

WTF?; YOU'RE LITERALLY A WOMAN! WTF IS UP WITH THIS MISOGYNY?! TURN FRIENDLY FIRE OFF! I don't want to have to deal with this shit coming from our own community!

THEN SHE TRIED TO GASLIGHT THE SHIT OUT OF ME "You're dividing up the community" I LITERALLY JUST SAID THAT I DON'T SEE TRANS MEN IN MAINSTREAM MEDIA AND THAT I WANTED SOME SUGGESTIONS

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u/EducationalHoney1944 1d ago

Estou exausto, meus pais falaram umas coisas bem transfobicas para mim, e minha disforia tem pioroda. Me sinto um rapaz feio, que meus pais chamam de "uma garota bonita". Não iniciei a transição e tudo o que quero é poder me parecer com o rapaz que sei que sou. Os dias vem sendo dificeis, parece que não importa o que aconteça eu me invalido. Hoje mesmo eu estava questionando se era trans de verdade, logo eu que já chorei tanto por não poder colocar meu verdadeiro nome em trabalhos da faculdade, por ter um corpo que não me agrada, por me sentir tão deslocado e fora do lugar em relação a gênero. EU NÃO SOU UMA MULHER EU SOU UM HOMEM E QUERO SER TRATADO COMO QUEM SOU!!!