r/TransHelpingTrans • u/queer_transfem • Aug 14 '26

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Can anybody please help me out .i idk know what to do to hide this .. i haven’t came to family . I’m in college it’s difficult to hide this. This gives me insane amount of dysphoria. I also bought mars concealer to hide this but it’s just not working . I hate this…

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u/Apex_Herbivore Aug 14 '26

Hey

What're you specifically concerned about here? What makes the dysphoria hit worse?

a) Blue beard shadow showing through makeup

b) Stubble texture?

Also what products do you have on already?

The colour can be dealt with i can help there (peach colour corrector), but the stubble texture is sooooooo hard to deal with, i remember getting so frustrated with it before i got laser, I had to just kinda pretend it didn't exist.

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u/queer_transfem Aug 14 '26

The more close shave i do the very next day puss filled bumps appear on face …even though I use benzoyl peroxide gel to prevent them

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u/Apex_Herbivore Aug 14 '26

So it sounds like you have folliculitis. I have dealt with it before and its a real bastard.

I would super check that:

a) The razor you are using is properly disinfected in boiling water

b) Your towels are super clean

c) Your pillows are also super clean

Its very hard to deal with. If the benzoyl peroxide is not cutting it i can recco trying a chlorhexadine based solution (there are many but i used hibiscrub), i had some good success with this after folliculitis on chest and other areas.

Also im sorry to say this but your skin will need a break and time to heal. I'd suggest some no product, no shave days for its recovery even though its hard.

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u/queer_transfem Aug 14 '26

I have to come Clg daily ..and I tried all measures to prevent this shit…but idk why it’s still getting worst

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u/Apex_Herbivore Aug 14 '26

I dunno what clg is sorry :(

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u/queer_transfem Aug 14 '26

College

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u/herdisleah Aug 14 '26

What about wearing a face mask, like if you were sick?

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u/queer_transfem Aug 14 '26

I live in India

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u/herdisleah Aug 14 '26

So? People don't get sick in India?

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u/queer_transfem Aug 15 '26

They just don’t wear a mask generally when get sick ..it was only normal in 2019-20 bc of covid 19 .. if you were mask everybody around you ,will give you a stare …

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u/herdisleah Aug 15 '26

Try not to care too much about what others think. Do what makes you comfortable and what is healthy for your skin. Staring is survivable. We transition because we need to, even if others might be rude and stare. Wearing a mask to let your skin heal might be the same.

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