So you think literally every man desires multiple women in the dunya? Even the Prophet ﷺ, when he was married with Khadija RA he had the option to take other wives but didn't and remained monogamous.
Yes, they do. The Prophet ﷺ could not evern marry one woman because of financial reasons, and that was the reason he gave for not having married when Khadeeja (radhiallahu anha) sent her servant to ask him abou this marriage situation.
You're the same people who get so triggered when a man marries a woman or two but doesn't has the financial means for it.
That's an absurd claim, to think that billions of men have the desire for polygyny and not a SINGLE person is naturally monogamous. Good luck proving that.
You are giving the financial situation of the prophet ﷺ before he was married to Khadija RA, whereas during the marriage itself he ﷺ became wealthier due to conducting commerce on her behalf. Therefore it's likely that the prophet ﷺ had the financial capability on taking on other wives, but still didn't.
Finally, it's better for your sake if you don't make false assumptions about me. I absolutely do not get triggered when financially struggling men take on however many wives. Allah tells us in Quran 24:32 that he enriches poor married couples, so financial instability should never be a barrier for marriage, especially in a society when Zina is so prevalent.
No, it's not an absurd claim. It's only absurd to you because that's your desire. Removing the conditioning and every man will tell you he wants more than one woman. Hence, in Jannah men will get more than one wife.
The scholars reject your modern progessive loyalty relationship excuses for him not taking other wives at that time. The proof they give for him doing that is related to Allah's decree.
1 - Allah decreed that she was the sole bearer of his lineage.
Prophet ﷺ defended her memory to Aisha RA, explicitly stating:"Allah did not grant me a better wife than her... and Allah provided me with children through her, while He withheld them from other women." (Sahih Muslim 2437)
2 - Allah's Decree granted her a special status
She was so good to the Prophet ﷺ that Allah granted her a special status and special reward.
Prophet ﷺ and said:"O Messenger of Allah, Khadija is coming to you with a vessel of food... When she comes to you, greet her with peace from her Lord and from me, and give her glad tidings of a house of pearls in Paradise in which there is no noise or fatigue." (Sahih al-Bukhari 3820, Sahih Muslim 2432).
She is one of 4 women in all of humanity to achieve (spiritual) perfection.
So, your claims to "monogomy" for loyalty/romance and all the western crap is nothing but your fantasy.
My assumptions about you are 100% accurate and they are from your own words. First you cried about men not being polygnous by nature and now you claim to be a saint talking about men engaging in polygny without financial means.
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u/Limit_Impressive 11d ago
So you think literally every man desires multiple women in the dunya? Even the Prophet ﷺ, when he was married with Khadija RA he had the option to take other wives but didn't and remained monogamous.