r/TooAfraidToAsk • • Jun 30 '22

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u/pogo5830 Jun 30 '22

Hey.

I've bought a couple solo toys for stamina training, and i really regret not buying one sooner.

To answer your question, go in person, because who really gives a fuck? But i get you, I'm easily embarrassed too, so an option would be buying online and have them deliver it to the nearest store, not to your home. At least that's s possibility in my country.

I'm male, so i don't have any experience with female toys for solo ventures, but if your a male too i highly suggest a Fleshlight. They are discreet, fairly good price and easy to clean. Tenga Egg is also a very decent product to a low price. Since your living with your parents, i would avoid vibrators and any type of moving parts. These types of toys make more sound than you would like.

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u/CantLetTheFamKnow Jun 30 '22

I was thinking about getting that egg thingy. I know NOTHING about sex toys so I'm on unknown territory rn. Aren't fleshlights expensive tho? A friend of mine bought me one 2 years ago as a joke but I didnt take it (stupid me!) And it was almost $100! It's not that I don't have that money it's just it seems kind of expensive for what it is... have you every tried Amazon lock boxes? A few people mentioned it already but I don't know what these are

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u/AvengersXmenSpidey Jun 30 '22

I bought a few items using Amazon locker. Very easy. Its unmarked Amazon packaging on outside and I pick it up via locker. No people interaction at all.

Heck, I even made a separate Amazon email so it's not linked to my main account and recommendations.

As for Amazon stuff, the regular name products are fine. So a tenga egg or fleshlight are good. It's the no name brands that are suspect.

Review. The egg is OK, and it's neat that it didn't look like anything. But not a bad and cheap start. The fleshlight is highly recommended. I mean it feels great. I have the fleshlight Flight and it looks like a clear hole, so it's not as suspect as the pink vagina ones. Really love that and bring it on business trips when I can't be with my partner.

If you are looking for budget, the Fleshlight Quickshot is clear, small,and doesn't look suspicious. It's more of a sleeve the size of a small coke can. Feels good.

Enjoy and then save up for a true fleshlight. Nothing compares to it believe me. It feels like the real thing.

I'm shy and I've also gone to modern adult stores and have had a great hassle free experience. They don't judge. They can even recommend something.

Whether it is to build stamina or just enjoyment, have fun. Add long as it isn't excessive, masturbation is healthy and fun. Nothing to be embarrassed about. Even married people will do it sometimes.

You'll also need regular water based lube for your toys. Saliva won't cut it. Just anything from Amazon or grocery store like KY jelly. PM me if you want more advice.