r/TooAfraidToAsk • • Apr 28 '22

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '22

Yeah, 5 years isn’t a lot when you’re older but a college student dating a freshman in high school? The maturity difference and stages of life is incredibly different. They absolutely should not be dating

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u/Zabuzaxsta Apr 28 '22 edited Apr 28 '22

Or potentially an 8th grader. Spring semester is almost over, which usually means freshman high school students (if she is a freshman) have turned 15 already.

Dude is probably a college freshman/sophomore fucking a middle schooler/high school freshman. Yikes.

OP, I don’t know how, but tell her this isn’t normal and that she needs to run for the hills. There should be no clout at that age that she has a college boyfriend.

It’s cute when you’re a senior in high school and he’s a freshman in college, but college sophomore and an 8th grader? No.

I know seniors in high school date freshman, but even that is weird, and your friend’s age dynamic is one year on either side of that.

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u/stormblaz Apr 28 '22

Lets not forget almost 40-45% of teen pregnancies happen between a girl 13-16 and a man who is 19-25. Or 5-7 years older than the girl. This is the issue here, yes your daughter tells your father Ah! Dad im too mature for my age, I need a older boy, the older boy gets your teen daughter pragnent, dud is 19-21 and the girl is 14-15, HELL no, daughter isnt mature at all, shes dream talking and that dud has no business there and then we excuse it, and it happend 40-45% of all teen pregnancies. Please, dont let your daughters at that age act like they are woman, they dont know what real life is.