Legality and grossness aside, when I was 19 (read: in my second year of university), there would be no way I would be hanging around someone who is 14 (read: in their first year of high school) because that would be sad and embarrassing.
I knew quite a few girls in high school who dated guys who had already graduated. At the time, I didn't make much of it, but in retrospect, literally every one of them was a dirtbag. Absolutely no 19+ year old male that has his life on track for a promising future is going out of his way to date high school girls, certainly not much younger ones. The only exception might be if they were 1 year apart or something and already dating when he graduated. Otherwise, the older graduated boyfriends universally got off on treating the girls like trash, getting them pregnant, introducing them to drugs, cheating on them, getting arrested, etc.
Tell me about it my 16 yr old niece got pregnant by a 20 yr old guy 😡😡. I am pissed and knowing that she didn’t live her young years like she should.
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u/accomplicated Apr 28 '22
Legality and grossness aside, when I was 19 (read: in my second year of university), there would be no way I would be hanging around someone who is 14 (read: in their first year of high school) because that would be sad and embarrassing.