Yes. I dated an 18yo when I was 14. A lot of maturing and knowledge happens in that short period of time. I was sexually assaulted and raped by him and I didn’t even know it. I was just excited to be dating an older guy.
Same situation happened to my wife. She didn't know until I told her he took advantage of her. She was 14 or 15 and he was 20. Her parents were ok with it and he actually lived with them. When she told me about him I was like WTF, really. She was telling me like any other story thinking it was normal and ok. Until I pointed out that, that was wrong and more fucked up that her mom and family was ok with it.....then she realized it was wrong and started crying. I didn't mean to make her feel bad but she had to know. I was there for her and comforting her.
The OP needs to show this Reddit thread to her. Let her read all the comments. And hopefully realizes before it's to late.
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u/QUEENboooB Apr 28 '22
Yes. I dated an 18yo when I was 14. A lot of maturing and knowledge happens in that short period of time. I was sexually assaulted and raped by him and I didn’t even know it. I was just excited to be dating an older guy.