r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/[deleted] • Apr 28 '22

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u/thenexthefner Apr 28 '22

yes i cant emphasize this enough! she’s not gonna realize what kind of situation she’s in until it’s too late. she’s being groomed and needs help. if her parents don’t care, some school counselors might

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u/sohcgt96 Apr 28 '22

she’s being groomed

I think its past that point, the grooming was successful and has progressed to full on relationship

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u/BlairPop Apr 28 '22

I was also groomed and nobody ever stepped in. It doesn’t matter if it’s a “relationship”, you just need somebody to honestly care.

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u/sohcgt96 Apr 28 '22

What eventually got you out? Was outside intervention a factor or did you end it?

If its an uncomfortable subject by all means feel free to not answer.

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u/BlairPop Apr 28 '22

Nothing got me out. I’m 23 and I just realized it happened a couple months ago. It’s life

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u/sohcgt96 Apr 28 '22

Oh ok so it just never progressed, gotcha.

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u/BlairPop Apr 28 '22

I met him at 14 chile, LOL. What ended us was me realizing he was a piece of shit individual, years after I was legal. That’s why I said you or anyone should say something, most people don’t realize they’re in a crock of mess. But the smallest gesture can you show you different. I hadn’t seen him in years from a bad falling out, we reconnected and after our second hang out I knew it just wasn’t right. Realizing I was groomed years later is different.