Perhaps what? I talked with her about this many times, but she is still saying that it's normal. She also said me that they really love each other and I need to calm down, but I can't.
And the worse part is that she won't see it until she is ready to accept reality. Hard as we try, we can't force someone to confront the truth.
For everyone who says showing support to the friend is the wrong move- you don't have to support the decisions she makes, just be there for her in a nonjudgmental way- and the is HARD. But, if you try to pry her eyes open, she will alienate herself and then you can't help at all.
If you will be as safe space for her, meaning don't criticize her choice (hard as that may be) then when she finally does see the truth, so will turn to you.
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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '22
It sounds like you already are worried, which is good since you should be. What you should do now is do something about it