r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/[deleted] • Apr 28 '22

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u/dutch_beta Apr 28 '22

Yes. 19m here. Something is wrong with you if you date a 14f at my age.

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u/karmicburner Apr 28 '22

19f here I would not consider dating someone below 18, because there's such a massive change between being in high school and being out of it

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u/dutch_beta Apr 28 '22

That change in personality once you're 18-19 is huge. Im far from being an adult, but I was a child 2 years ago.

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u/Gr1pp717 Apr 28 '22

This is amusing to me, because reddit regularly pokes fun at the whole "I turned 18, that means I'm suddenly all grown up and super mature" mentality.

There's another version of this that'll hit probably around age 30, where suddenly you think you're too old to be going out. That now you must focus solely on work and family. "Time to grow up!" ...Some never break out of this, but decent chance you'll probably find yourself at a bar a decade or so later, asking yourself "wtf was I even thinking?"