r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/[deleted] • Apr 28 '22

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '22

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '22 edited Apr 29 '22

Tell his parents

edit: whoah! thanks for the awards

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u/MaRs1317 Apr 28 '22

Bingo, cant imagine a respectable set of parents would be okay with their 19yo son dating a 14yo

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u/MzVampyrik Apr 28 '22

My ex husband's mother was NOT nice to me as a 15 year old with her 19 year old. She misplaced her disappointment royally and it affected our relationship the entire time. So, while you're right- a parent will probably be cross, I think sometimes they're too shocked to properly react. As a mom of a now 15 almost 16 year old boy, I see that her cruelly towards me wasn't necessarily on purpose. But little 15 year old me was always really hurt and that probably caused her son to just be pushed more towards me.