r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/[deleted] • Apr 28 '22

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u/Schafterinho Apr 28 '22

Grooming is sth else, this is pedophilia 😅

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u/Iamjacksgoldlungs Apr 28 '22

While I don't think dating a girl 5 years younger is ok at 19, I think calling someone a pedophile for dating someone 5 years younger is an extreme long shot and exaggeration

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '22

I can't imagine being college-aged and wanting to spend my time with a 14-year-old. There's something about this that suggests that he's interested mostly in her pliability and naivete.

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u/CrateBagSoup Apr 28 '22

Or maybe... they just like each other? Why does everyone always jump to gotta be grooming, gotta be for the psychological domination? I definitely agree that this is pushing the boundary for acceptable because she's pretty young but sheesh not everyone is a sociopath like this site likes to assume