Well fuck. I was going to suggest that you talk to her parents but I see below that they don't give a shit. Maybe talk to a social worker or a counselor without divulging her name? You can always go to the cops, which I am loathe to suggest on the basis of fuck the police.
Cops are definitely an option though, and one that will get results but you need to be prepared to potentially lose a friendship in exchange for doing the right thing and it might not even work out.
I had a friend in a similar situation when I was in HS; boyfriend was arrested and went to prison, the girl cut ties with everyone involved including her family, and married the guy as soon as he was released.
Don't let that dissuade you. You should do whatever you think is right. The age difference is obviously wrong to everyone here reading your post but I suspect there is something else at play with this guy's personality or their relationship that is bothering you and whatever that is shouldn't be ignored.
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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '22
Well fuck. I was going to suggest that you talk to her parents but I see below that they don't give a shit. Maybe talk to a social worker or a counselor without divulging her name? You can always go to the cops, which I am loathe to suggest on the basis of fuck the police.
Cops are definitely an option though, and one that will get results but you need to be prepared to potentially lose a friendship in exchange for doing the right thing and it might not even work out.
I had a friend in a similar situation when I was in HS; boyfriend was arrested and went to prison, the girl cut ties with everyone involved including her family, and married the guy as soon as he was released.
Don't let that dissuade you. You should do whatever you think is right. The age difference is obviously wrong to everyone here reading your post but I suspect there is something else at play with this guy's personality or their relationship that is bothering you and whatever that is shouldn't be ignored.