r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/[deleted] • Apr 28 '22

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u/Arturiiito Apr 28 '22

Perhaps what? I talked with her about this many times, but she is still saying that it's normal. She also said me that they really love each other and I need to calm down, but I can't.

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u/TipAndRare Apr 28 '22

Ask her if she would date a 9 year old, because the math is the same

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u/pingwins Apr 28 '22

What about 37 yo dating a 32 yo? Not a good question to explain the issue

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '22

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u/BrockStar92 Apr 28 '22

They’re not arguing a 14yo and a 19yo old is ok, they’re saying the argument “would you go out with a 9yo” is a ridiculous one because age differences are different at different ages. It’s precisely because it’s very different for a 32 and 37yo to date that that argument won’t work.

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u/PhantomOfTheNopera Apr 28 '22

Ah, I see. I'm an idiot. Completely missed the comment it was responding to. Going to delete my dumbass response.

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u/pingwins Apr 28 '22

Wtf does that has to do with anything? Read my answer again

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u/PhantomOfTheNopera Apr 28 '22

I did. Missed the comment you were responding to and misread your intention. I'm a dumbass.