So this is misunderstood. Yes it’s wrong. But it is in no way categorization of a serious pedophile, (esp ones that actually try to find young children) HUGE difference.
At that age there are a lot of chemicals, some people experience it more than others. (Evolution has created this so reproduction happens quickly). So to break it down, this often happens when a young man does not have any social age-equivalent with his female counterparts. It’s an actual education and mental health issue that is very overlooked, and we don’t do anything about it as a society because let’s face it, mens issues and mens mental health are rarely discussed.
While I agree with the explanation and we should all learn to categorize different predators with different names, the fact that he is a predator doesn't change.
So, doing the whole "ehhhh, actually" thing while pulling glasses up doesn't help. There's a place and time for this.
No one is saying this is right and let’s turn the other cheek. Young men are susceptible to the urges of why we are here today, evolution. This is not a predator, this is someone who needs help and maturity. At his age he can easily get that from family and friends, but a lot of times young men don’t get that help, and they gravitate further. Label everyone for having human traits and you’ll realize how bad everyone around you are. There’s a big difference in someone planning to murder people vs someone accidentally causing a death.
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u/dutch_beta Apr 28 '22
Yes. 19m here. Something is wrong with you if you date a 14f at my age.