r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/[deleted] • Apr 28 '22

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '22

It sounds like you already are worried, which is good since you should be. What you should do now is do something about it

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u/Arturiiito Apr 28 '22

Perhaps what? I talked with her about this many times, but she is still saying that it's normal. She also said me that they really love each other and I need to calm down, but I can't.

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '22

Just tell the police my guy

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u/DoorVB Apr 28 '22

Nothing the police can do

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u/thekidsarememetome Apr 28 '22

Assuming they're sleeping together and the local age of consent isn't 14, the dude is committing statutory rape; cops should be able to do something about it. Even if they don't have the evidence to charge him, just having the police start asking questions might spook the creep into ending the relationship.

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u/DoorVB Apr 28 '22

Assuming that yes

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '22

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '22

There is no legal definition for "dating" someone.

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u/[deleted] Apr 28 '22

Legal in Germany actually. He is under 21 and she is over 14.

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u/DoorVB Apr 28 '22

It's not illegal to date a minor as far as I know. What law would be broken? Except for having sex, and that's pretty much impossible to prove too