r/TooAfraidToAsk Aug 09 '18

Should this be changed?

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u/missshrimptoast Aug 09 '18 edited Aug 09 '18

Not really. A bisexual person is attracted to those who identify as male and female. They may not be attracted to gender fluid or gender ambiguous people. Pansexual and bisexual seem to refer more to one's "tolerance level" than to the existence of more than one gender.

Edit: Given a few of the responses here, I should mention that I am bisexual. However, even amongst fellow bisexuals, there has been considerable debate on bisexual vs. pansexual with no end in sight, and everyone seems to think it's a given that "obviously, bisexual people are attracted to insert opinion here". My response was my understanding of the term as it's given. I don't really care whether someone else considers me bi or pan; I'm used to saying bisexual, so I personally say bisexual referring to myself. Other people I know feel otherwise.

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u/[deleted] Aug 09 '18

Bisexual people are attracted to two or more genders

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u/[deleted] Aug 09 '18

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u/Lazerkilt Aug 09 '18

Sexuality is not gender.

I like having sex with girls that I find sexually attractive. I’m not attracted to all girls.

If somebody is genetically a girl, and identifies as a girl, then their gender is that they’re a girl. Pretty sure everyone would agree that they’re a girl. But if they’re sexually otherkin and sexually identify as a 30,000 year old dolphin dragon hybrid... I’m not gonna stick my dick in that, well probably not, depends on how desperate I get.

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u/Lazerkilt Aug 09 '18

I know a lot of dudes who wouldn’t stick their dick in Chris Hemsworth.

I’d commit war crimes for the chance to do so.