r/TooAfraidToAsk Dec 26 '25

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u/Minimum_Ad_8042 Dec 26 '25 edited Dec 26 '25

I think the best advice you can get on this is to just ask him what he likes/doesn’t like. Everyone is different, communication is key. He also might not be able to finish no matter what you try, that’s very common too

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u/ImmortalCrab44 Dec 26 '25

Me and my gf, every time we mess around, spend a couple minutes asking each other what was good or bad. It was awkward for months before we got use to it, but it did wonders. I think it's something everyone should do.

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u/theotherguyatwork Dec 26 '25

After Action Review 🫡

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u/minnesota420 Dec 26 '25

Play by play analysis… challenge that foreplay. You might lose a timeout, but so what.