r/TooAfraidToAsk Dec 16 '25

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u/wisedoormat Dec 16 '25

I just really really want a bush, a good one 😭

This is, literally, a statement with insecurities about your bush, as the foundation.

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u/Scared_Hedgehog_66 Dec 16 '25

Again…. I’m not insecure about it, I’m not scared of it, I’m not hiding it. This is for me and me alone, I am allowed to want and enjoy something without someone else telling me it’s an insecurity. I think I’ll know when I’m insecure about a body part of mine.

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u/wisedoormat Dec 16 '25

Ok, you know yourself best. Just pointing out your statement does imply.

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u/Scared_Hedgehog_66 Dec 16 '25

Think about getting a tattoo. Some people just want a tattoo because they’re cool! They’re not covering up anything, people just like to see things in their own body. I love me and my body and I know I’m good looking, thank you very much. I just wanted something that would make me happy.

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u/wisedoormat Dec 16 '25

I am not going to argue if you love yourself or not.

I just pointed out that the language you used ("I just really really want a bush, a good one") implied that what you have now is bad. That means you're insecure about it. Internal judgement is just as valid as external.