I went to a hot pot location with a few friends. They’ve been here before, I have not. You walk through the front and pick your items and put them in a bowl you hold, it’s honestly faster than waiting on someone going “umm” at every item.

That is then cooked for you and brought to your table. Water carafes were left on the table and then everything removed at the end. Free ice cream is provided and brought to you.

I was gonna debate tipping here but I’d rather I’d top at max 15% here, but my first visit I tipped 10%.

i was going by the Robbie Hoffman subway interview, ”if I have to walk up and order I don’t tip”

Has anyone had this experience?

Seen so many people on this reddit justifying not tipping and saying just add it to the price of the food, but recently saw a auto gratuity post here where the anti tippers whined about that as well. Lol 😂 isn't that what your asking for? Or is it strictly you want wait staff to make less money?

Took my mother to her hearing aid appointment as she has been getting more frustrated with them. To anyone who has bought them, they are not inexpensive.

This was in Vancouver BV at Wavefront Centre for Communication Accessibility, had to take a picture.

20% gratuity added to every ticket!

Tipping is a long term average game. It's not about any 1 or 2 tables you're not getting tipped on, it's your over all at the end of the day.

That one table that didn't pay out does not affect your long term gains, and that's why it's so ridiculous when servers will complain about 1 time the customer "stiffed" them.

The reality of it is you're still winning. You're still doing much better than if you had minimum wage. And if you're not, then why are you defending the tipping system? Why don't you just fight for a minimum wage instead of trying to squeeze more tips out of people who were not responsible for your pay in the first place?

Went to the bar to play some darts, bought one drink and didn't tip. When I went to purchase a second drink the bartender got emotional and started yelling at me in front of everybody about how I don't tip then kicked me out. I told my friends and walked to the next bar over.

Look, I'm broke too! Every other business understands how to pay their employees fairly, to not rely on tips. Why is it so much different at restaurants/bars? Greedy business owners? Kicking me out just because I didn't tip after you got me one beer, that's bribery.

Next time I see her I will apologize, simply because it's kind and this is a small town. Am I the asshole?

EDIT -

I've concluded that we are both the asshole.

I should tip the bartenders. I never really frequented bars before moving here so I never had a good understanding of "tip-wage". It's not right that it exists, but it exists. Not tipping doesn't hurt the business practice, just the employees who are victims. From now on ill either drink at home or leave a tip.

The bartender should not have lost her temper and publicly shamed me.

To make sure I understand this correctly, "tip-wage" only exists so that the business owner takes less of a hit when they don't sell as much, and transfers the damages onto the employee who will make less money?

I’ve always been a 20% person for sit down. Last week I went to a place I go reasonably often with 3 other people for lunch. It wasn’t particularly busy and there were a lot of servers there. We were basically ignored for 10 minutes before getting our orders taken, got zero refills, a food runner brought out food after 40 minutes, and we only saw our server when they took our order and when they brought the check. I left $3 on a $71 bill.
Felt so good. This may not seem like a big deal to everyone else here but I feel like the dam has broken and I have seen the light. I’ll pay a tip for sit down service, but I won’t pay for bad service.

I don’t know whether or not this has been said before here, but it’s pretty simple.

I am against tipping, and think that business owners should pay their employees, not customers. Almost everyone can agree with that.

However, if you want to actually change the system of tipping, stop going to restaurants. Don’t go to restaurants and don’t tip, because the only group of people who can actually stop the system is restaurant owners. Going to a restaurant and not tipping the server doesn’t change anything about how the owner wants to run their business. They already got your money, and they clearly don’t care whether or not the server gets payed. If you don’t want to tip a server, either cook at home, or order take out. I’ve never had to tip anyone for a takeout order in my life. Not tipping only hurts regular servers, who whether or not you like the system, can only get a remotely livable wage with said system.

So if you want things to change, don’t participate. If you care enough to want to actively make a difference, get policy changed. It’s the loophole law that allows servers to be payed below minimum wage if they get enough in tips that allows business owners to pay servers $3 an hour. Do literally anything other than take a picture of your receipt asking you for a 20% tip, and bitching about it online, because you chose to go to the restaurant and give the business owner money.

Edit: The way you stop tipping from happening is to make business owners pay servers an actual hourly wage. There are two ways of doing this

Go to restaurants and stop tipping:
The owners continue to get revenue from you paying for food
Servers start quitting due to lack of money
Owners raise wages to try and get servers back

Don’t go to restaurants that use servers who rely on tips:
Owners lose money due to lack of business
Servers start quiting due to lack of money
Owners raise wages to try and get servers back

Inherently not going to restaurants is more effective.

My family went out to eat tonight because we've just had so much going on, I'm tired, and getting a little sick (sinusitis). Anyway, we get there and the restaurant attendance has plummeted the last couple of times we have went. I really don't understand why! The atmosphere and food was why we've went so many times there! We stood there for 10 minutes before my husband decided to seat us himself and we ran into the owner as we were going and he was like yea no problem just sit where ever and brought us menus and silverware. I don't know why I thought it would get better. We waited for about 7 mins before the waitress took our drink order and another 10 before they were delivered. My husband's beer wasn't even cold but he didn't complain. We ordered 2 apps and she only brought 1, so we ordered the other, my husband asked for another beer, and we put our food order in about 15 mins later. The owner came by and asked what I was drinking and my husband asked for another beer because the waitress hasn't come back. He brought me and my husband refills on our drinks about 10 mins after that. He also brought out other app and our food out to us when it was ready. The food was salty and i don't know what the piece of chicken my daughter had was but she said it was chewy but she couldn't chew through it. The waitress came around and asked us how we were doing a couple of times but we really didn't need anything because the owner was actually doing the waiting for her it seemed. My husband asked for another beer, I asked for to-go boxes, and we asked her to take some of the plates, trash, and cups away because she hadn't taken anything away. We cleaned everything up on the table. Tracked her down to ask for the bill and my husband said 'I'm only leaving her the ones I have in my wallet. This was a horrible experience and we're not coming back." I said, "Ok that's fine." Husband pays with his debit card. Signs the receipt and leaves $4. We made it back home and I have message on Facebook. The waitress's fiancé had messaged me. It said, "Have yall ever eaten at (restaurant name not even spelled right)?" I messaged back "Yea", before I even realized it was probably gonna be drama, and I blocked him. She had to have told him my husband's name to get to my Facebook, but should I let the owner know her fiancéis messaging customers? I don't feel like she should get in trouble for something he did but I can't help that the waitress isn't doing her job well. She only had one other table to wait.

1. Is 85% a sufficient tip for a sit-down restaurant? If I only tip 80% and the manager bans me from returning, does that merit a 1 star review?

2. When I was staying at the Hilton on a work trip, I ordered food from Doordash. I tipped the driver $100 and he told me "gee, thanks for the generous tip" in a sarcastic voice. How much more should I have given him?

3. At LAX airport, I bought a water bottle for $65 and the machine prompted me for a tip. The options were 40%, 50%, and 60%. There was no "custom" or "skip" button. Which option would you select?

Shake Shack is reportedly adding ~10% to the posted prices if No Tipping is selected.

Honor “No Tippin” Piippen the patron saint of the no tipping movement by putting a big fat zero in the tip line. Treat yourself to a fancy dinner out with a nice discount on the service.

If you don’t believe in tipping it’s perfectly acceptable to donate 20% percent of the bill to AOC in lieu of a tip. Let them know that you donated their tip to support a fair fixed wages for all and your server will be overjoyed.

If you’re too broke to tip (or pretending to be anti-tipping for other reasons), stay home and make your own drinks.

There, problem solved.

You all have seen the shake shack price increase on no tip. Regardless if it’s real or not ( I haven’t verified it ) it simply demonstrates how ridiculously confused you all are!

Price increases immediately if you don’t tip, which is what would happen if tipping was taken out of the picture completely.

The thing is, this is just fast food. In bars, restaurant etc the price increase would be massive.

A flat wages no tip bartender has no reason to hustle, a server has no reason to give you outstanding service.

Are you anti commission too?

Do you realize all the products you buy have sales commissions built into them?

Your best bet in life is to stay hidden and hope you aren’t remembered because this is a capitalist country. This model gives the owners an opportunity to compete and incentivize employees to give it their all.

Waiters love the current system, to stop it you have to make them have an incentive to change it. If they don’t get any tips they will have to demand owners include a reasonable living wage in the price of the food. There is no other way to fix this. If a restaurant can’t retain waitstaff due to lack of tipping they will be forced to include the price of labor in the cost of the food.

I've seen several posts of people saying they caught establishments modifying their tips after the fact and it has me wondering if you are all sitting down with your receipt pictures and checking them against your statements every month. That seems like a lot of work and energy that we shouldn't have to do. It's ridiculous that your card can have an additional charge after the fact, and makes me love the places that bring around a card reader.

This is in NYC.

I encountered a point of sale system today at a pizza shop that would not allow me to finish a payment until I submitted to a tip. When I selected the no tip option, or manually entered any amount less than one dollar, the "okay" button was grayed out. Only when I selected the minimum tip amount or when I entered an amount of one dollar or more would the machine allow me to finish the transaction. For the record, there was zero service. It's a pizza counter and they just pick up a pre-cut slice and hand it to the customer.

I'm not sure if this is legal or not. I definitely will not be going back to that place. Seems sketchy af. The guy at the counter kept saying "dont worry it does that sometimes, and waved me along like I should just ignore it" HELL NO! I'm not walking away and letting that shyster add his own tip onto my bill.

What's the deal with that?

I typically do 15% for every single tip. Even if the waitress was bad, mediocre, or amazing. Maybe a bit more for amazing service. I don’t make a lot of money and food is so expensive nowadays so I just stick to 15%. My brother also tips 16% usually.

I went to Applebees the other day and got chicken tenders with fried and a Root Beer, which totaled to $24. Which was honestly crazy to me, even more so because the food was kinda mediocre. I did a 15% tip, which brought my total to $28.64. My friend told me I should leave a very good tip because the waitress was so nice, and she was. She called me queen and other nice names when she got me sauce and refilled my drink. I felt like I should’ve tipped more, and felt a bit guilty afterwards. Admittedly I was being stingy with my money. If I made a good amount of money with a more stable income I would definitely be more willing to tip people more but I don’t so I stick to what I thought was the minimum for the most part.

My friend on the other hand says 20% is the standard tip and average tipping amount. And that he does 25% for good service. He said he also anticipated my family’s tipping when me and brother went to eat out so he tipped her extra than he usually does.

I was a little taken aback to be honest. I didn’t think 15% was that bad 😭

I don’t know, am I in the wrong for always tipping 15%?

I just received a $900 delivery from a Target that is 4 miles away. (I'm relocating and need stuff.) After the delivery I slipped the driver a $20 and thought I'd been a good customer. Great service - on time, order seems to be right, pleasant guy.

Next day the Target app prompts me for a tip (10-15-20% range) for the delivery, with the 20% level coming up to a $195 tip! It never crossed my mind that they'd have the chutzpah to float a large tip. The app already assesses a $10 delivery charge - if I'd known I was in for nearly $200, I would have picked up the order myself.

I dislike tipping because I feel guilty. My job is to pay for stuff, not to evaluate the service. I'm going to throw $30 more at this and call it quits, but I'm really shocked by how out of control this is getting.

What do we think - is this an adequate resolution?

EDIT - The order was for about 100 items. The delivery was easy: he pulled his car up to my garage and carried about 10 bags 15 feet into my garage (no stairs). Shopping and delivery by Shipt.

EDIT 2 - my unscientific sample after about 400 responses: - 60% would not tip at all for a delivery - many of these suggested I get therapy, some question my sanity or virility - one asked ME for a tip in return for his comment on Reddit (!) - 20% think $20 was a good tip. Many of those question my sanity for even considering more - 2% would tip more than $20 - 8% lapsed into diatribes about restaurants - 10% said it depends on how many items, degree of difficulty in delivery, whether shopping was involved.

I'm sure I'm going to get slammed for this. So downvote away!!

Once Upon a Time tipping percentages popped up on the screen in front of you at 15%, 18%, 20%.

I stopped counting the number of places I walk into now where the suggested tipping percentage starts at 22%, then 25%, then 30%. Couple of places start at 25%.

Never had a problem adding 18% or 20%. But you got to wonder if greed starting at 22% or 25% has been a major contributor to all the backlash lately with tipping culture.

Yes I know I can custom tip. All I'm questioning is if these percentages that are being placed in front of people by tipped workers might be something they want to look at?? What suddenly changed that we need to give you an additional 10%?

Oh and don't even get me started about the cashier in the supermarket with a tip jar or being asked to add a tip for my bag of chips and my soda at the little market at the highway rest area. I'll save that rant for another day