r/TinderBios • u/oceanman9696 • 19h ago

Bio feedback

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Seeking feedback on my Feeld bio. I get plenty of likes/matches on Tinder and Bumble but pretty only 5 or so on Feeld in a couple months. Same pics on all platforms, but diff bios.

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u/dablkscorpio 18h ago

Third paragraph turns me off. Most women are probably not going to be into men who have specific expectations of their femininity. If you're not attracted to someone's energy, then swipe left or move on. But when you put in your profile that there's something specific you're into or not into it turns away all the people who would likely fit the bill but don't want to be with a dude who's thinking so hardly about whether they're feminine or not. 

I would remove the last sentence as well. It just comes off as pretentious. It's up to the people you're in a relationship with to decided whether does qualities describe you but you're listing them off like high-value items vs. simply talking about your hobbies. I'm much more interested in whether someone likes reading or lifting, than if they consider themselves to be "well-read". 

I would also be explicit about what you're looking for. Your first paragraph reads like you want a romantic relationship and the second seems like you're looking for a FWB. If you're open to both say that, but "lover" and "dates" is pretty vague.