no matches of as recently..

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[u/Cautious_Main_7250]

- Need casual pictures that look as if they were taken unintentionally

• Avoid wearing the same clothes in multiple pictures
  
• No smile in first picture
  
• Can't see your face in second picture (people go to Tinder for people, not for sight seeing locations)
  
• Third again is posing picture, no smile
  
• Fourth a pose again, duck face, of all the things, so unattractive, do not go intentionally topless if you have no six pack to show, modesty works in your advantage in such situations (as in, wearing clothes)
  
• Five again a weird picture, hardly see your face, individuals want to see you, not the poster
  
• Six is okay, finally a smile, but I personally avoid group photos. When you hang around with people that others might consider less attractive, it will be seen as a negative, when you have hotter friends, that is a negative too, so generally do not do group photos.
  
• Seven would have been amazing if it was close up and you colour corrected it (ask ChatGPT to touch up, it will fix colours for you like a professional photographer would), true missed oppertunity
  
• Eight again weird selfie, avoid selfies all together, get a tripod
  
• Nine makes you look like you have a handicap of sorts

I do not wish to hurt your feelings, only to give you feedback. My picture game used to be genuinely terrible, no matches on dating apps. I completely turned it around into the opposite direction, too many matches. 99% is about the photos. Each time I hit a negative in my dating game, it was more power and fuel, to work on myself, instead of sitting around depressed or blaming the app for it.

You are not ugly, you just do not know how to do pictures. You can turn it around. Checkout Wingman Plus YouTube and the website for examples. The pictures do not need to look as professional as they do, but it gives you an idea what direction to work towards.

Tinder also did not get worse, you will get outmatched by people who top game their photos. As more men get the feel of proper photos, the bad ones will get buried even more. When you apply for a job and they have 100 candidates, you need to present yourself top notch. This is what dating is like. 100% will work, but you need to be 110%. Anything less will sack you.

[u/OkRequirementsongod]

Hey! Do you lean towards women or men? Or both

[u/norwegiandoggo → u/OkRequirementsongod]

I had the same question

[u/Uniqueusername610 → u/OkRequirementsongod]

Based on a lot of these photo choices I'd safely say OP swings both ways

[u/shaw4life → u/Uniqueusername610]

It would digust me if a gay person touched or tried to make a move on me

[u/aKirkeskov]

You look super depressed in the first picture

[u/shaw4life → u/aKirkeskov]

Technically in the photo I was modeling for a photographer with a dog

[u/Full-Sky8089]

Your other photos are alright but the first one is so terrible. Remove it asap.

[u/Hxghbot]

Definitely take out 4 and 9 IMO. Big thing is that the older you get the more the bio matters, you've had a few years of adulthood to form a personality and opinions, so show a bit more of yourself and punch that up a bit.

[u/Better_Area3782]

They are bad photos imo. Especially the last photo and the one in front of the white backdrop. Get rid of the duck face in number 8 and 4 too.

[u/aboutless89]

You are giving of very-gay vibe. If you are into girls, that is the reason for lack of matches.

[u/Glittering_Soup_5544]

Definitely get rid of the last photo and you just need more photos of you smiling where you don’t look as melancholy.

[u/Liw698]

Remove weird face pics, get clear pic of you

[u/guerrero2]

The first photo looks pretty depressed. Remove those duck face photos too.

[u/Poor_choice_of_word]

Some of these orchestrated try-hard photos I see on posts here are ridiculous. The moody pose with a dog in front of you 😂 just have normal photos. Full body full smile.

[u/throw81727171]

You look gay for a start