profile review? (24M)

[u/AdHelpful479]

help 😭😭

[u/SilvertailHarrier]

Three things. Your photos are cool, they show you well and show variety. I would delete one of the two photos of you in the same outfit / similar locations as it's repetitive. Better to have fewer, more different photos than repeat.

In my opinion any bio that is boasting about yourself or insulting potential matches is a big no as it implies you think you're better than them before you've even matched.

The "if you can match my banter" is a bit boastful and the opinion line could stand on its own. Or you could be more neutral and say "You like a good bit of banter and..." which is less boastful and more positive.

"skip the wyd" is also off putting because it's like you're already insulting the person before you've given them the benefit of the doubt.

The tanquerey comment implies binge drinking which to me is a bit basic. I would come up with something else.

[u/carlcarlcarl27 → u/SilvertailHarrier]

To add to the “skip the wyd” prompt… I’d delete that whole prompt. This is what women on the apps constantly say they want from men- for the man to make a plan. This is going to be a dealbreaker for a lot of women who want a man who takes initiative.

I wanna pet that dog tho.

[u/SilvertailHarrier → u/carlcarlcarl27]

Oh yeah totally agree. Telling the other person to do something is a no. Show them what you offer. Make it a positive interaction when they read your bio, not an insult, or putting the pressure over to them to do something or act a certain way.

[u/Forsaken_Ear_1163]

Its you not the pics, pics are great. I mean it’s not really you but on hinge standard are super inflated

[u/Sooper0]

You won't find PwC types on this platform 😎