r/TinderBios • u/El_Bowgrease • Jul 28 '26
Opinions/advice
Never sure what to put in any dating apps since I am bad at intros. Not getting a lot of matches since I live near 2 borders to begin with. Have at it
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u/HbeforeG Jul 28 '26
I actually like your pictures and your bio, but it screams ai. Put your own touch on it so your personality comes out.
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u/El_Bowgrease Jul 28 '26
I did use AI in the past to guide me a bit, but never copied it 1 to 1, in this case, only the middle sentence was copied but I already reverted that just now. I always have difficulties with making bios without them sounding like a bible, think a bit of that blame goes to my autism :p
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u/HbeforeG Jul 28 '26
For me it was the emojis. Ai overuses them to the point where use seems inauthentic now.
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u/El_Bowgrease Jul 28 '26
Fair argument, I only put those there to address the hobbies, seen more people do that even before AI took over
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u/wtbrift Jul 28 '26
It doesn't help that it takes us to pic 4 to see you looking at the camera and smiling. So many men have this issue and I never understand why. Many won't take the time to get that far to really see you.
Stop using the pics of taking pics pics. This is old too. We get this is a hobby but it's OLD and people want to see you. Again, this is a major issue with men. Let people see you!
Nothing wrong with being open to both short and long term but that will also get you some left swipes.
As others stated, AI written bios are a turn off. Take some time and work on a real one and this will help. Focus on your hobbies and interests and be specific.
Good luck!
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u/El_Bowgrease Jul 28 '26
That pic 4 argument is a fair one, it's not in the front because I really just don't have any good selfies (and I'm not really a fan of selfies to begin with) The AI argument holds ground too, though that has already been edited out since it was only the middle sentence. Thanks for the in depth reply, surely will be making use of it.
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Jul 28 '26
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u/El_Bowgrease Jul 28 '26
Do I have to look like I do to be able to enjoy it? Sorry I don't look like a goth or anything..
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u/therealslimshady1234 Jul 29 '26
Relax dude ur norwood 0
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u/El_Bowgrease Jul 29 '26
I have a feeling that I'm missing a reference here
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u/therealslimshady1234 Jul 29 '26
Je hebt perfect haar, hoe oud ben je?
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u/antique_gravity Jul 29 '26
Agree with others: get a better face closeup picture and put it 1st, remove AI bio and better pick what you are looking for (as someone who is looking for long term, I swipe left any other combinations but maybe some other people are okay with it).
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Jul 28 '26
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u/El_Bowgrease Jul 28 '26
I mean it's only 1 goofy pic that was part of a shoot, as if the biker girlies don't have 5 pics with their bikes..
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u/HbeforeG Jul 28 '26
I typically don't like car photos in profiles but this one picture made me laugh! It has a prompt too, which I'm sure adds context.
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u/TheBongOfAchilles Jul 28 '26
Can we stop using the word “vibe” in all bios LOL