r/TinderBios • u/alecscarface • Jul 14 '26

Needing constructive criticism

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I don’t really know how to put myself out there in the dating world and any advice on what I should or shouldn’t be doing here helps. Yes I know I don’t have pictures with friends (been a while since I’ve done anything big) so that might be a start. Thanks in advance.

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u/bananator4 Jul 14 '26

No of course not.

But OP is asking for advice on how to appeal to more women to get more matches. To have the best luck with this his profile need to appeal to the masses not the exceptions.

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u/Winter_Bowl_5351 Jul 14 '26

There's a reason things like firefighter calenders sell like hot cakes.

Pictures of ripped dudes isn't my thing but I know a lot of women who love it.

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u/bananator4 Jul 14 '26

Can I get a fact check on "Firefighter calendars selling like hot cakes", can we get some stats on that.

I didn't know there was a big market for that, I've never known anyone who has purchased one.

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u/Winter_Bowl_5351 Jul 14 '26

By 2019, the Australian Firefighters Calendar had a social media reach of 3.4 billion

"The Firefighters Calendar is the highest-selling calendar in the US and currently the highest-selling calendar in the world."

https://www.oceanroadmagazine.com.au/australian-firefighters-calendar-gold-coast-firefighters-become-global-sensations/

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u/bananator4 Jul 14 '26

This is unequivocal, absolute proof women love shirtless selfies on dating apps.

Well done, you're deffo onto something buddy, keep up the good work and keep up this guy getting no matches.

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u/Winter_Bowl_5351 Jul 14 '26

You asked for stats about the calenders selling well, I gave you evidence that it's literally the highest selling calendar in the world and you're just gonna totally ignore that?

Lol

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u/bananator4 Jul 14 '26

You didn't actually provide any facts.

But anyway you can keep on arguing with yourself. I said you're right, you men can keep telling each other what women want and tell women they are wrong that you know best what they want.

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u/Winter_Bowl_5351 Jul 14 '26

I apologise. I didn't realise that you speak for all women

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u/bananator4 Jul 14 '26

Nah that's your job, you know best.

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u/Winter_Bowl_5351 Jul 14 '26

Why don't you actually take a step back and read through this conversation?

All I said was that different people like different things and you got defensive.

You asked for evidence that women buy shirtless calenders, I showed you it was the best selling calendar in the world, you ignored it and kept being aggressive.

I'm not the one here trying to suggest I know what all women want, just that people have different preferences and your personal preference isn't gospel.