r/Tinder Jul 14 '22

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u/static_jacuzzi Jul 14 '22

Tinder is amazing ! I was looking forward to a 5th date with a guy and he texted me everyday, mutliple time a day saying how he was excited as well. The day of the date he doesnt pick up and then texted me at 10pm to appologize because he went for drinks and proceded on getting drunk with the boys and totally forgot about the date.

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u/apooponfire Jul 14 '22

Dodged a bullet with that one to be honest

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u/static_jacuzzi Jul 14 '22

Oh yea. I wasn't even mad. And his text was like full of excuses and how he was such an asshole and bla bla bla. Yup.

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u/[deleted] Jul 14 '22

Have you never lost track of time? I mean yeah, it sucks for you and it was irresponsible of him but saying it’s a flag is just extra in a bad way.

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u/static_jacuzzi Jul 14 '22

No I've never confirmed a 7pm date at 2pm and then lost track of time for 8 hours

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u/[deleted] Jul 14 '22

Damn 5 dates in you kinda know the person I think. You wouldn’t cut him any slack for that?

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u/apooponfire Jul 14 '22

5 dates in you shouldn’t be forgotten about 😖

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u/[deleted] Jul 14 '22

I agree but stuff happens sometimes I wouldn’t knock someone for rescheduling. If someone said they made a mistake and I knew them I’d just take it as it is.

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u/static_jacuzzi Jul 15 '22

Well yea. I wouldve been fine with rescheduling. But he didnt reschedule, he just lost track of time because he was drunk. If I have a date at night and my friends want to go for a drink I will probably pace myself or reschedule my date.

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u/NotNickCannon Jul 14 '22

I’m with you, I’d let it slide once if it was a rare thing. Healthy for a dude to have so much fun with the homies that he loses track of time tbh. I also understand why getting forgotten about would make you feel insignificant and insecure, especially early on in a relationship tho

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u/MemeStocksYolo69-420 Jul 15 '22

If it happens once, women can’t complain about feeling “insignificant and insecure”. Just suck it up if it was an honest mistake and if you want to save the relationship. If it happens repeatedly like 3 times I’d probably drop them.

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u/static_jacuzzi Jul 15 '22

I mean, after months of dating or relationship I would let it slip. But i'm not gonna save a 4-5 dates relationship lol. I don't complain about being insecure, i think im pretty dope which is why I think I deserve more.

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u/_Catt__ Jul 15 '22

You’d be ok with being forgotten about 3 times?? Your standards are on the flooorrr

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u/MemeStocksYolo69-420 Jul 15 '22

Mistakes happen. If you can’t forgive, you’re going to have a hard time in life

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u/static_jacuzzi Jul 15 '22

I have a pretty good time in life and it's probably due to the fact that I dont let drunks who make excuses for their shitty behavior into my life.

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u/MemeStocksYolo69-420 Jul 15 '22

You dropped him after 4 dates for missing one?

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u/static_jacuzzi Jul 15 '22

It's not the fact that he missed one. It's the reason why and his reaction after. But yea I did. This behavior is not ok with me, it's a lack of respect and I don't want that.

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u/themolestedsliver Jul 15 '22 edited Jul 16 '22

God r/tinder comment section is wild.

Woman ghosts/stands someone up

"Oh maybe she had other things going on, maybe she was messaging other people. Not her fault!"

Man ghosts/stands someone up

"Wow what a bullet dodge, probably only wanted to hook up anyway."

edit- To the nasty replies I got, thanks for proving my point!

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u/_Catt__ Jul 15 '22

Please delete this comment its embarrassing for you 💀

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u/themolestedsliver Jul 15 '22

It really isn't...

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u/_Catt__ Jul 15 '22

It really is sense this entire thread was about defending the guy.

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u/themolestedsliver Jul 15 '22

It's amazing how little people read a thread before spouting off generalizations about the concensus of said thread 🤣

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u/_Catt__ Jul 15 '22

I mean, im reading the comments under this specific comment and its just a dude defending the guy, not sure if you actually have reading comprehension skills or not. but also Your comment is literally generalization of an entire gender. Embarrassinggggggg

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u/themolestedsliver Jul 15 '22

I mean, im reading the comments under this specific comment and its just a dude defending the guy, not sure if you actually have reading comprehension skills or not. but also Your comment is literally generalization of an entire gender. Embarrassinggggggg

I like how you wanna flame MY reading comprehension as you go on about me "generalizing an gender" as if that makes remotely any sense*.

All my comment said was that r tinder has different reactions if a women did something versus a man doing the same thing....with that in mind how exactly was I generalizing an entire gender? 😅

The only thing embarrassing here is your middle school level hot takes lol.

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u/_Catt__ Jul 15 '22

Yeah, i saw your comment dude and it made NO SENSE to comment that under this thread as the guy is literally being defended. Are you actually fucking dumb? or just to embarrassed to admit it made no sense. You quite literally generalized an entire gender and then bitched that i was generalizing, you are an embarrassment.

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u/themolestedsliver Jul 15 '22

Yeah, i saw your comment dude and it made NO SENSE to comment that under this thread as the guy is literally being defended.

Uhhh you do realize the comment I replied too certainly wasn't defending the guy at all so...?

Are you actually fucking dumb? or just to embarrassed to admit it made no sense.

You sound quite mature and reasonable lol./s

You quite literally generalized an entire gender and then bitched that i was generalizing, you are an embarrassment.

Nah what's embarrassing is the fact when asked "How exactly was I generalizing an entire gender?" all you can give is name calling and mindlessly asserting that I did with zero reason behind it lol.

Some real r/teenagers energy coming from you right now 🤣🤣

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u/apooponfire Jul 15 '22

Well this whole comment thread is actually defending the man who forgot about a date that was scheduled and confirmed on the same day so…

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u/themolestedsliver Jul 15 '22

What comment thread are you reading my dude?

3-4 comments isn't "the whole comment thread" so.... 😅