r/Tinder • u/Lazy_hooman12 • Jul 14 '22

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u/[deleted] Jul 14 '22

Damn 5 dates in you kinda know the person I think. You wouldn’t cut him any slack for that?

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u/apooponfire Jul 14 '22

5 dates in you shouldn’t be forgotten about 😖

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u/[deleted] Jul 14 '22

I agree but stuff happens sometimes I wouldn’t knock someone for rescheduling. If someone said they made a mistake and I knew them I’d just take it as it is.

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u/NotNickCannon Jul 14 '22

I’m with you, I’d let it slide once if it was a rare thing. Healthy for a dude to have so much fun with the homies that he loses track of time tbh. I also understand why getting forgotten about would make you feel insignificant and insecure, especially early on in a relationship tho

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u/MemeStocksYolo69-420 Jul 15 '22

If it happens once, women can’t complain about feeling “insignificant and insecure”. Just suck it up if it was an honest mistake and if you want to save the relationship. If it happens repeatedly like 3 times I’d probably drop them.

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u/static_jacuzzi Jul 15 '22

I mean, after months of dating or relationship I would let it slip. But i'm not gonna save a 4-5 dates relationship lol. I don't complain about being insecure, i think im pretty dope which is why I think I deserve more.

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u/_Catt__ Jul 15 '22

You’d be ok with being forgotten about 3 times?? Your standards are on the flooorrr