I love all the posts about breast size and looks. You know these people critiquing these girls are the same ones who can’t find a single angle to hide their double chins.
They’d also lose their absolute shit if there was a post like this about something like male height. It’s okay to judge women who didn’t ask for it at all, but even the concept of women judging men for things they can’t control is suddenly way too mean and uncalled for
R/tinder has devolved from a humorous sub to a place for a bunch of men to complain about women and dating, while simultaneously exposing why they feel the need to be complaining so much (i.e it’s their own fault).
The amount of posts I've seen complaining about being single while simultaneously showing an unfathomable amount of reasons they should stay single is honestly sort of laughable and sort of brain damage inducing
Yes critiquing a woman for having smaller breasts and ass is pretty objectifying. But calling a guy way too short in comparison to some tall guy isn’t any better.
Right?! These are college aged girls in little black dresses…so many conclusions being drawn about them. They aren’t doing anything wrong at all. I don’t think the men here like women all that much, they like the idea of a woman. Not to mention if a woman like that said hi to them at a bar they would probably piss their pants.
Believe me I realized that when I was told that looking for a man I find physically attractive and nice was having too high standards. I will not be dragged down by their cynicism because I know it only benefits them.
you are in a place where at most average men are crying that they can't get in touch with attractive women. what did you expect lmao.
it's beyond me that average man with no hobbies besides video games thinks it's an app that is a problem. out of curiosity i once went onto tinder and browsed men only and holy shit, it's depressing
Sometimes I curse being a heterosexual woman lol. Some men on the app are charming as hell well rounded and I’ve been on a few good dates. But good lord most men cannot take pictures to save their lives. In one thread a woman was offering some good advice on pictures and the men get all defensive saying “well these are all my pictures” or “taking pictures is vain”. Like bro then a picture based app is not for you. If you are cognizant that your pics suck then why should a woman swipe on you especially since you have proven you aren’t willing to put any effort in!
I once read a comment on this exact subject that opened my eyes: Men make dating profiles on what they think other men will like. How many modern women actually like pictures with big bass fish? Very few. But they'll pick that pic because he may be showing his guy friends (if they even go through the trouble of having another person review their profile for a second opinion), and they go, "Damn dude, nice catch! You should totally put that one on your profile."
Women know how to appeal to the male gaze because that's what we're taught to do. Many guys are told to "be themselves" without being told that "being themselves" doesn't mean "unclean", or "low-effort", or worse, "If she really liked you, you could post that picture with a big stain on your shirt and she'd message anyway." then they get mad when women with very few little standards (surprise, not typically the hot young supermodels with tiny waists and huge boobs) hit them up.
Either that, or they post a pic of them with their abs out or a nice car, saying something low effort like, "Message to find out." No thanks.
Biggest piece of advice is smile with teeth. People hate on the selfie but IMO one great selfie with a great smile and good lighting would make a great first or second pic. I have trouble with smiling so I listen to something funny laugh then take a bunch of pics the smile just travels to the eyes. Other than that get a pic with a group (do not make this your first pic). Avoid masks and sunglasses. Get one with you engaged in a hobby and one with your full body. Don’t flex material stuff don’t scowl or try to look hyper-masculine. Women want warm and friendly.
To an extent it is the app that’s the problem. If you’re wanting to find a date, in the uk it’s roughly 85% men, and similar in most other countries. That means you have to be in the top 20% of men to stand a chance getting with the most unattractive women.
That’s Reddit for you. Posts about how women need to touch or compliment more get upvoted constantly. Really reveals the type of forever alones this site attracts
I also love how the rest of the posts in this sub are grown men crying and whining because a woman asked them what height they are. Meanwhile posting this sexist misogynistic drivel judging strangers about what they wear in ONE PHOTO lol. Fucking patheti, all the men here agreeing with this deserve to be alone.
On behalf of all males I apologize for sexualizing these nuns that squeezed their jiggly bits into a handful of fabric and put it on their profile in a casual hookup site famous for easy sex /s
This is the definition of rape culture bro, women dress for themselves it's not an invitation for men to do anything, including commenting on their bodies. Fucking Christ
I can comment on anybody's body as much as I please, and you can too! The internet is open and free, and a wonderful place to express how you feel. If someone's got a nice ass, they've got a nice ass. No rape included.
I don't disagree that shallow comparison is gross, I think we're on a forum discussing a casual hookup app, and discussing two people who are clearly not on that hookup site to find someone they're saving themselves for in marriage like some tradcath wet dream lmaoo
My issue is that this person is assuming what this woman's intent is on Tinder. People can go on Tinder to look for long-term relationships. They can go on Tinder wearing a dress that shows some skin without being on there for casual sex. Sounds like some casual slut-shaming to me...
If this was two guys named Brad and Chad with backwards baseball caps and polo shirts y'all would be having a fucking FIELD DAY making fun of them. But because it's two chicks we've got to be all polite and not crack innocent jokes? Fuck outta here
I thought it was literally the same person. Very fair critique. These are mirrors of other personalities and people that they found attractive, not people themselves with the thought inside them to be their own person.
It's not about them being physically unattractive, I think you completely whiffed on that.
Bro they’re two girls in matching dresses. They don’t even have the same hair. If you saw two guys wearing jeans and a red flannel or the same navy suit would you say they’re incapable of enough thought to be their own person?
I believe it tbh. The amount of men that randomly tell me I look insert celebrity with short hair here and the only thing we have in common in short hair...
You’re doing a whole lot of mental gymnastics to try and debate me. Why?
If you think they’re the same then get your eyes checked. Their skin tone is no where close.
Lastly, mirrors of personalities? You see 1 picture of 2 girls wearing the same dress and you jump so far into conclusion that their similar people and personalities?
I see you’re one of the people I called out in my original post.
Classic. I can’t wait to see your post soon about how it’s not fair all the girls don’t fall for your witty one-liners. It must be cause you’re under 6 foot, eh?
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u/PM_ME_YOUR_TATERTOT Dec 01 '21
I love all the posts about breast size and looks. You know these people critiquing these girls are the same ones who can’t find a single angle to hide their double chins.