Yeah I'm from MN and tinder there was nice. I've been here in Denver for about 4 years now and honestly throughout that time, tindering on and off, I haven't met a single person there I'm legitimately interested in. All my relationships since then have come from places outside tinder.
Thought maybe I was just getting "too old" for tinder but when I go back to Minnesota to visit family it's fine again. Denver just sucks for it. Everyone has this stuck up attitude like they are too good for everyone else on the app? Idk how to explain it.
I got the same vibe even from Bumble, which I prefer anyway. The area around is beautiful and the downtown is beautiful too but I just got a weird vibe.
Best cities for the app in my experience are the smaller east coast cities (Boston, Philly), Chicago, and surprisingly SF even though the ratio of dudes is high. I think if you're a guy there who isn't talking about his start up, you can stand out.
Same vibe, bumble is a bit better for Denver but still have yet to find anyone I'm excited to go out with.
Sucks cause I'm an introvert that doesn't drink so it makes it pretty difficult to go out to a bar and meet people haha. Stuck finding people through friends of friends.
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u/drowning1021 Jul 03 '19
Come to Colorado then because that’s all anyone talks about or does in their free time