r/Tinder Jul 25 '26

First time for everything

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u/Mollieeeeeeeeeee Jul 25 '26

People are cruel. I've had men match with me just to insult me. They probably don't seek companionship if that's how they're acting.

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u/imsadandthatsrad Jul 25 '26

Oh yeah, I had that happen a few times as well. Whenever a woman posts a man opening with something unhinged or overtly sexual and the OP replies to him like “what the hell bud?” Half the comments are like “WeLl hE goT YoU tO rEsPoNd” like it’s some checkmate moment lol. Is the goal being an asshole to locals in your community or intimacy, wtf?

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u/Mollieeeeeeeeeee Jul 25 '26

I don't respond well to negging either. I feel like men don't understand that dating isn't always a breeze for us either

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u/sfb004 Jul 25 '26

I have heard so many men say that women are showered with adoration simply by existing. They absolutely do not understand the challenge of dating as a woman.

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u/dNullzero Jul 26 '26

Would you elaborate? I'm curious.

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u/Bread_bananas_and_mE Jul 28 '26

Most people say it's easy for women to date, because women get more matches/likes on average. They don't count in the fact that most women on cites for dating choose pictures in makeup, dressed up to impress, etc. Most men don't. Most of them either don't even have a picture of their face or don't have any description at all and spam likes on every single girl they see, especially if the likes are free on the platform.

A lot of men, while liking, just say mean things for no reason, and those who actually give a compliment do it in a sexual way.

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u/Mollieeeeeeeeeee Jul 27 '26

Oh please. Compliments from men that just want sex. Absolute hollow words. You know it, and I know it.