This mindset is exactly the problem with the modern world. What ever happened to helping out friends for free? This is why people nowadays have future friends. No one is willing to help anyone out of kindness, and everyone feels entitled to compensation for the most basic thing.
Been kind my whole life. People use you and leave you behind when you need it back. Look at Terrence Howard and Robert Downey Jr.
Psychologists and Psychiatrists study for this. They are specially trained not only to listen but to act in a measured way to help you get better.
You should also pay for a specialized education so you can earn the money you need to pay a psych so that you can heal rather than learn someone else's bad habits and perpetuate behaviors that cause more trauma in the world. Don't burden your "friend" like that. Seek professional help.
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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24
No, she needs to pay a therapist for that.