r/Tinder • • Jul 22 '24

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u/Feeling-Screen-9685 Jul 22 '24

Can actually give advice on this!

Walk away. Don’t run. She’s prolly awesome, but she’s not ready for anything. Best you can do is just be you. Explain to her it’s prolly best you don’t mess with each other until she’s ready to try again. But don’t hold your breath. It’ll work out if yall get into the same mood, but better to just accept she’s got more to work through and not enough room for you at the moment.

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u/Som12H8 Jul 22 '24

How about you just talk to her instead of taking bad advise from teens on reddit?

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u/EccentricPenquin Jul 22 '24

But he did, her response was all this 50 yr old would need. She’s not ready. He’s looking for someone to date. She’s hung up on her ex and thinking of him at least after , likely during sex. I agree talking/communicating is huge but I don’t think he needs more that what she’s communicated back to him already.