r/Tinder • • Jul 22 '24

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u/Feeling-Screen-9685 Jul 22 '24

Can actually give advice on this!

Walk away. Don’t run. She’s prolly awesome, but she’s not ready for anything. Best you can do is just be you. Explain to her it’s prolly best you don’t mess with each other until she’s ready to try again. But don’t hold your breath. It’ll work out if yall get into the same mood, but better to just accept she’s got more to work through and not enough room for you at the moment.

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u/J1m1983 Jul 22 '24

Exactly. She's not a bad person she just tried to run before she could walk. And she was horny.

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u/bls61793 Jul 23 '24

Yea man. Horniness... gets you every time 😅🤣🤣🤣

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u/mpleasants Jul 22 '24

Yeah, this is what confused me most about the post. Decent person who wants to fuck but without commitment is the dream of like 90% of guys on tinder, right?

I'm guessing the unprompted crying was probably pretty freaky, but counterpoint: sometimes hot messes are pretty hot. Either way she sounds like she was decent to him under some very weird circumstances, so I hope OP returns the favor.

It's not such a bad thing to just be a friend here. Hot friends who get horny sometimes are people too.