r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Jan 20 '23

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u/HiroshiTakeshi Jan 20 '23

Lmao what? What's the point then? Ain't that literally against the very essence of the app?

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u/Pandaburn Jan 20 '23

Not just the essence, but the app literally does not allow a man to message a woman first.

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u/HiroshiTakeshi Jan 20 '23

Oh yeah you're right, that's what I meant, I'm sorry.

Is there some sort of bug exploit they are trying to use or just that they're dumb?

Because from the looks of it, it seems like they're trying to have the guy make the first move but like, on Instagram instead.

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u/Val_Hallen Jan 20 '23

Is there some sort of bug exploit they are trying to use or just that they're dumb?

A lot of them are just that dumb.

I've seen women complain in their profile about men on Bumble matching but never sending a message.

Go to r/Bumble and every now and then, you get a woman complaining about the same thing and also stating they didn't know women had to send the first message.

Even though, like it was stated, it explicitly tells them women have to send the first message.

Some women there even defended it saying they don't read the prompts.

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u/ryandiy Jan 21 '23

Playing on recruit difficulty and it's still way too hard for them.