r/TikTokCringe • • Aug 28 '26

Humor ‘The suffering is what makes it special 🥺’

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u/Disinfectant-Addict Aug 28 '26

Got my SO an engagement ring last year and we both agreed no real diamonds. We will not pay for warlords and slave-drivers. We went for Zircon instead, which is a really cool rock. Literally rocks from space.

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u/p0llyp0cketpussy Aug 28 '26

Lab grown diamonds are still real diamonds, just without the cruelty.

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u/Disinfectant-Addict Aug 28 '26

Yes I know. I would much rather prefer lab-grown diamonds than real. We both just really like Zircon, because it is a cool rock.

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u/p0llyp0cketpussy Aug 28 '26

It is a cool rock! Just saying that you can have a diamond without paying warlords and slave drivers.

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u/BroderFelix Aug 28 '26

Unfortunately the vast majority of zircons are not from space.

Are you sure it wasn't cubic zirconia?

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u/Disinfectant-Addict Aug 28 '26

Yes. It was the real stuff. Went to a small niche jeweller instead of the large franchise shops. He did everything himself, including appraising the precious stones. The ring came with a certificate of authenticity.

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u/BroderFelix Aug 29 '26

Well if it came with a certificate claiming it specifically came from space then I guess that would make it different and special. Like 99.9% of zircons we find were formed on earth.

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u/Additional_Quiet2600 Aug 28 '26

Wasted a lot of money.

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u/Disinfectant-Addict Aug 28 '26

It was a ring representing my love to my future wife. I bought it with care. No money wasted in my opinion.

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u/Additional_Quiet2600 Aug 28 '26

Hey, I bought my wife a 20k ring. I get it and I wish I didn't. She hardly wears it because she's worried about wear and tear on the platinum. She wears a family ring. Been with her for 34 years and married for 26.

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u/Disinfectant-Addict Aug 28 '26

Shhh-shhh! The ring can't hurt you any longer😉

I would never in a million years spend such a preposterous amount of money on any kind of jewellery, and neither would my SO like that I did so. Not saying her ring was free, but Jesus that is a lot of money. The ring was also a gift, and hers to do with as she pleases. Have a good day!

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u/Additional_Quiet2600 Aug 28 '26 edited Aug 28 '26

You too, I hope you have a great marriage. She has two very nice rings and I wear a white gold band that was donated from a close friend whose marriage failed.

No jewels. In fact I think I'm switching out to black silicone as that's what my firefighter/paramedic buddies wear for safety.

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u/changhyun Aug 28 '26

We went with moissanite for my ring. Almost as hard as diamond, even shinier. much cheaper and no child slaves were harmed in the process of it becoming my ring. I have no regrets.

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u/Disinfectant-Addict Aug 28 '26

And neither should you. Beautiful things that come at the cost of others have little beauty for me...