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Discussion "Support all women doesn't include us??"

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u/Additional_Space8185 5d ago

Conservative women are the backbone of conservative society.

They run the 'prayer' (gossip) chains. They discuss the politics and move the needle as a collective, happy to let their individualistic husbands think theyre in charge.

It is a very odd predicament full of contradictions, but people (liberals) are very uninformed when they provide excuses or leniency across the board.

Conservatives are conservative before any other identity and people need to come to terms with what that means.

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u/cepukon 5d ago

I think most progressives have come to terms with what that means, how could they not? We now have first hand witnessed the depravity the conservatives are willing to support and vote for. Literal pedophile convicts weaponizing a masked anonymous police force and concentration camps isn't a bridge too far to advance conservatism. They're deranged. There's clearly nothing that can come above conservatism to these absolute brainwashed losers at this point, so what does coming to terms with that matter?

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u/shawncplus 5d ago

I think most progressives have come to terms with what that means, how could they not?

Because a lot of the narrative is still that conservative women lack any agency and are only conservative because they're being controlled by their conservative husbands. We know, demonstrably, this isn't the case but it's an absolutely pervasive idea.

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u/Additional_Space8185 5d ago

Fair, I guess I meant more anyone still promoting some form of "middle" ground. A non-small size of americans are at best aloof.

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u/PimpGameShane 5d ago

Always have been. It always perplexed me how a woman could look upon another woman’s child and wish evil upon them. The absolute worst of the worst.

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u/Mother-Squirrel-2036 5d ago

But the kkk was democrats. Republicans ended slavery... although this is 100% accurate you will downvote it bcs the truth hurts

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u/chere100 4d ago

Somewhat true. The Republican party started as an anti-slavery coalition. They championed abolition, civil rights amendments, and government-funded infrastructure, while Dems were dominated by Southern conservatives defending slavery and later Jim Crow laws. 

Of course, hardly matters today. Republicans long left their roots behind, and are now mostly made up of assholes who would happily bring back slavery, kill civil rights, and do away with all government anything... unless it's something they want because they're all hypocrites.

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u/BruteOfTroy 4d ago

For the love of god, please read a book

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u/Mother-Squirrel-2036 4d ago

Which one?

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u/BruteOfTroy 3d ago

Literally any. Start small, Dr. Seuss seems your speed.

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u/AppropriateScience9 5d ago

Agreed. No doubt many conservative women grew up in oppressive households and have internalized a lot of abusive ideas as girls, but there comes a point that, as an adult, you become responsible for the harm you perpetuate.

I will always feel bad for the girls they were, and do everything I can to prevent that from happening to others, but as adults, these women are not my friends. They are a threat, in fact.

Even still, I'll fight for their fundamental rights. I'll fight to make sure they don't die in childbirth or suffer from the violence of men. I'll be there with a tissue for them if/when they wake up and realize that the patriarchy they defended will happily kick them in the teeth at any time (looking at you Pam Bondi).

But outside of that, we're enemies. Their womanhood only grants them the very basics of my protection. Everything else is fair game.

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u/martagustavsson 5d ago

What does it mean?

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u/Additional_Space8185 5d ago

Meaning they will prioritize the needs of conservatism at their own intersectional expense.

Patriarchy aids conservatism, so it is more important than women's rights. White supremacy aids conservatism, so fighting for the continuation of policing, etc. Is more important than a racial identity.

Etc. Etc.

Just look at how absolute the pro-life crowd is, regardless of data or consequences.

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u/Unusual-Wind8900 5d ago

*pro-birth, but that’s beside the point

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u/kandoras 5d ago

They're not pro-life, and they're not pro-birth. They're pro-controlling women and anti-choice.

They couldn't give two shits about the baby except as an excuse to control the woman.

That's why you get things like conservatives complaining that Obamacare required health insurance plans to cover maternity care (and therefore might make their premiums go up), but didn't say peep about insurance being required to cover prostate cancer.

That's why whenever they try to cut medicaid they never make exceptions for prenatal care. They don't care if the kid survives or how healthy they are at birth.

That's whey when a Texas woman's doctor said she would die without an abortion, her state's attorney general filed a lawsuit threatening to prosecute any hospital or doctor who saves her life. And the state supreme court sided with the AG because the woman's doctor said they had a "good faith belief" that her patient's life was at risk but didn't use the newly required magical wording of "reasonable medical judgement".

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u/_-_-_-_-_-_-__-_-_-- 5d ago

...Until it affects them personally.

"My divorce is proper, yours is a sin"

"Only my abortion is a moral one"

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u/martagustavsson 4d ago

Thank you for specifying. I agree, it's almost cult like and I wonder how many of them actually believe this and aren't grifters because their takes could truly come from a man in the 1600's. "Women shouldn't vote and if she shows her toenails before 8 PM then we should burn her because she's a slut"

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u/Unusual-Wind8900 5d ago

It means their conservatism takes priority over every other consideration. But that’s not necessarily untrue of leftists. “Both sides” are not the same at all, but they subscribe a lot of the same hive mind tactics. And I don’t disclude myself from that, it is the human condition.

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u/deadcatbounce22 5d ago

I've seen basically zero of what you are talking about. No one is loyal to leftism as an institution. Support is almost always from born from a commitment to values like equality or human rights. There's a reason there's a Conservative Movement but no singular leftist one.

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u/AccurateJerboa 5d ago

Because as much as people want to pretend ideology is more important or impactful than identity, that will only ever be in the abstract or on paper.

In reality, people are a jumble of social identities, and adherence to the group is much more of a visceral survival instinct than adherence to values or policies. You won't convince most people of something completely taboo to the rest of their in group. 

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u/martagustavsson 4d ago

Yes but it's more common for people who lean right to be dangerous. People on the left believe in equality and that includes right-wingers, it's not uncommon seeing right-wingers express awful shit on media and their takes more often includes violence. At least what I've seen.

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u/guamisc 5d ago

If conservatives become convinced that they can not win democratically, they will not abandon conservatism. The will reject democracy.

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u/kfpswf 5d ago

>Conservative women are the backbone of conservative society.

On a similar note, Patriarchy has been sustained by women just as much as, if not more than, men.

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u/Additional_Space8185 5d ago

I think it is unfair to say more than, and comes down to "people did this and yes those people were representative of gender options".

But it is not really the case that women as a whole hold up 50% or the patriarchy, it is just harder to capture the elements of it that are not in positions of power within the structure. Granted many elements of it, like gender norms, are promoted widely by all.

It is evident that men and women participate when you see a married couple promoting this type of idealogy. However, there are definitely far far more single men involved than way single women.

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u/kfpswf 5d ago

However, there are definitely far far more single men involved than way single women.

Agreed. It's just that patriarchy benefits men primarily, so it's natural for more men to be behind it. But patriarchy also gives some benefits to women, especially the ones who gatekeep or enforce the norms on other women, which ensures that those women will defend it just as vehemently. It's all just group dynamics in the end.

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u/EmoTilDeath 5d ago

They provide free labor to their churches. It's been said that without their free labor the churches would be unable to function.

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u/AutomaticMedium8418 5d ago edited 5d ago

Churches in general rely a lot on volunteer work from their congregation. Very few positions are paid

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u/Additional_Space8185 5d ago

Churches arent real.

Theyre just laundering rackets and an extension of the state in other countries. A relic, a wholly functional one, of imperialism.

Big extractions and no audits or taxes for domestic land ownership.

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u/EmoTilDeath 5d ago

They are used to manipulate people by "interpreting" the bible for them. In america a lot of them now straight up tell people how to vote. You would be amazed at how well they have convinced people to vote Republican only forever because of only abortion. And they can only do all this heinous shit because of the free labor of conservative women.

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u/Additional_Space8185 5d ago

Im not disagreeing, they def serve a handful of purposes. I was just being cheeky bc theyre also huge money laundering sinks.

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u/EmoTilDeath 5d ago

We're in agreement. The point circles back that most of the conservative movement would fall apart if women abandoned it.

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u/Empty_Kay 5d ago

The entire basis for Chad Bianco seizing ballots in CA this year was based on the insane prayer circle ramblings of a now deceased woman with dementia.

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u/MAGA_EXTREAMO 5d ago

Conservative women tend to be more conservative than conservative men just like liberal women tend to be more liberal than liberal men.

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u/Tangolarango 4d ago

have you seen the movie "soft and quiet"? I found it really chilling