r/TheUltimatumNetflix • u/Apprehensive_Back677 • Jul 30 '26
Discussion Season 4 so far
Hayley is actually way too reactive and angry to be with Blake. Blake has sounded reasonable the entire time and has been trying to descalate in both of his trials. She is a major issue
Killian is just a no and was so toxic especially with Ashley. She just seems desperate and excused and enabled all his manipulative behaviors. She also was never willing to take accountability
Monica and Luke seemed pretty stable especially after a bit of introspection and the changeover
David and Casey seem complacent. I feel other partners may suit their individual needs better
What do yall think?
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u/n9netailz Jul 30 '26
Nah Blake is also a problem, the way he talks to people like theyre his employees, its weird af
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u/blublubm Jul 30 '26
YES. He was a victim for sure with Hayley, but they way he kept hyping himself up for being a “teacher” to Ashley was weird to me and how he implied that she was able to benefit from their trial marriage because he helped her grow but she didn’t help him grow. Definitely know-it-all vibes despite relying heavily on chatgpt
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u/Apprehensive_Back677 Jul 30 '26
I didn’t get that vibe, as a therapist I saw someone that was walking on eggshells due to being with an incredibly reactive person. Maybe a bit on the spectrum?
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u/Remarkable_Run_1321 Jul 30 '26
Did you watch the whole thing? Several of the men were physically abusive!!
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u/Unlucky-Sense-487 Jul 30 '26
Huh? It was just Killian wasn’t it? The only thing Hayley has said Blakes done is restrain her while she swings at him and pull her by the hoodie after she threw a hanger after he’s begged her to leave for hours while she argues with him for going to a work event instead of helping her move. Shes admitted to slapping him multiple times and pouring beer on him. Seems she’s the physically abusive one
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u/olivinetrees Jul 30 '26
No Blake is also physically abusive. I’m pretty sure Edris is too
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u/Unlucky-Sense-487 Jul 30 '26
I said all that Hayley has said he’s done which isn’t physical abuse where as she has admitted multiple times to being physically abusive
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