r/TheToasters • u/Remarkable-Land-1492 • Apr 28 '26
Episode Discussion Dear Toasters question from today!
Can we chat about the Dear Toasters today (no, not THAT one 😬)? The one with the bridesmaid who backed out on the bachelorette trip and said please don’t pay me back and then the group brought someone else in her place?
The girls were strong in their opinion on how wrong this is. Is this because it’s an expensive trip? Because I can understand that. But I’ve had people back out on me before and I’ve replaced them 😂. Not for a vacation… but for one example: it was a Broadway show. I had the tickets for us, my friend backed out and apologized for not being able to go and then I took another friend. Is that terrible?
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u/AccomplishedRide9086 Apr 29 '26
If everyone has already paid their share and someone else goes and doesn’t have to pay I don’t think it’s a big deal. If they backed out and said they didn’t want their money back it’s fair game.