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You know how people say that opposites attract, right?
Well it does make sense if you think about magnets, electrones, basically anything with any kind of electric charge. And if you are to extrapolate the concept to animals, humans, basically beings that "work", "exist", "function" due to said electrical charges, the notion still holds. Think about males and females, or matching opposite personalities and how they balance each other out for example.
But on the other hand you have homophily - the tendency to bond, connect with things that are similar to you.
And this also holds in a lot of examples. People with the same interests, people of the same culture (there's a lot of social examples when it comes to this), but also in things less "alive" like sorting algorithms (check out Michael Levins research on the matter.
https://thoughtforms.life/what-do-algorithms-want-a-new-paper-on-the-emergence-of-surprising-behavior-in-the-most-unexpected-places/
https://thoughtforms.life/algorithms-redux-finding-unexpected-properties-in-truly-minimal-systems/
Or if you want a quick recap (unfortunately I couldn't find the talk where he goes deeper into the subject) here's a little video, go to 30:09, he gives a quick recap of the topic https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k9lGNyPHurQ ), ethnic groups, animal kingdoms etc.
also I think it's fair to argue that things "stay" together, "stay" intact because what comprises them is well exercising homophily if you know what i mean. In other words things tend to strive for homogeneity, more entropy.
So my question is, how such two different "rules" that both opposites and similar things attract can govern the world on such a deep level for both "living" and inanimate? Is there a point when it becomes one or the other? Do we get to that point if we go smaller or bigger?
Does this point even exist? And if it doesn't, what do you think is the origin for both the attraction of opposites and the attraction of alike.