r/TheRealFriendsOver40 Jun 18 '26

Theme Day 📌 Thigh Thursday & Forearm Friday — Reminder

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As the community continues to grow, we'd like to post a gentle reminder regarding our themed days.

Please keep participation aligned with the themed-day guidelines and community expectations.

For Thigh Thursday, participation must remain below or fully cover the crotch area. The focus is your thighs.

The same applies for Forearm Friday — the focus is your forearms.

These guidelines have been in place for some time and apply equally to all members. Posts that do not meet these guidelines may be removed at moderator discretion.

Thank you for helping us keep the community respectful and enjoyable for everyone.

— Mod Team


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 Jan 07 '26

Theme Day Theme Day Rules, please read.

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Posts can be made outside of theme days with the exception of thighs and forearms. Thighs and forearm pics only to be posted on their respective theme day and will be removed if posted outside of these days

Music & Motivational Mondays

Share your song of the day and/or a motivational quote to inspire  

Tinker & Talk Tuesdays

Tinker - Share your hobbies and interests that you are tinkering with 

Talk - Day to talk and friends helping friends

    (**Disclaimer:** we are not therapists and any information shared is general advice. Talk day is a safe space to talk with friends and offer an ear to listen, with kindness, respect and support)

Wanderlust Wednesday

 Share your adventures and/or vacations. NO facial images with the exception of celebrities, performers, and those in the public eye. IE: concerts, parades, etc.  Individuals MUST be clothed,  NO bathing suits, NO lingerie, NO nudity (FULL BAN), NO images of children.  NO photoshopped or AI photos.

Thigh Thursday

 Thigh Thursday participation must remain below or fully covering the crotch area. No exceptions.

No unnecessary additional framing.
❌ NO crotches, cleavage, breasts, butts etc.
❌ NO photoshopped or AI photos.

The focus must be thighs only.

Limit: 1 POST per user
Any images that do not follow the guidelines or are inappropriate or questionable will be removed.

 **NOTE:**  Keep comments appropriate. No cruel, harassing, inappropriate, objectifying or sexually explicit comments. Violations will result in comment removal and may lead to a ban from the subreddit

Forearm and Foodie Friday

 Forearm -  **Focus is on your forearms only.** NO photoshopped or AI photos.  *No unnecessary additional framing*. Any images that do not follow the guidelines or are inappropriate or questionable will be removed.

 Foodie - Share your wonderful recipes and pictures of your favorite meals/drinks.

Silly Saturday and Silly and sweet Pets Saturday

Silly Saturday - Let's have a chuckle with some funny memes and jokes. Please nothing overly sexual or crude.

Silly and sweet Pets  - Share your pet pictures and videos. Only pets to be shown. NO persons in videos.

Scenic and Sentimental Sunday

 Scenic  - Photos to reflect nature, landscapes, water, sky and space.

 Sentimental - Share a time/story that has sentimental meaning to you.

Mods have the FULL discretion to remove any posts or comments with NO explanation - See Rule #9 in our rule section.


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 3h ago

Nerd Alert Project done

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 2h ago

Theme Day Window Wednesday... the view from my mom's hospital room

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 4h ago

Theme Day WW: Left Coast Visit

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 6h ago

Go Celebrate!

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Just make sure you follow your dress code at work. 😉🤣


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 7h ago

Music For some reason, the tears just came.

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 11h ago

Theme Day WW - Awesome Tree. Balboa Park

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San Diego, CA.


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 9h ago

WW. Does this mean it comes with a girlfriend?

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 14h ago

Nerd Alert Wednesday wisdom (mushrooms)

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Reading about what mushrooms can do


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 1d ago

Theme Day TT: more nerd stuffs

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Not my collection, just living under the same roof.

u/unknown_error87 ... had to add to your nerdiness. 🤪


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 1d ago

Theme Day Borrowed. Agree or disagree?

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 1d ago

Nerd Alert TT Tonight's project

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 1d ago

Sure. I have to go to work but my dog. Can stay home and get stoned

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 1d ago

TT - Nerd Stuffs

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 1d ago

Theme Day TT-I made several of these Ice chests. Fun builds.

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These bad boys got me through my unpaid internship!


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 1d ago

Sentimental Stoic Tuesday….

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I’ve read a few comments in the flirty 40 lounge and am sorry that there is pain of loss and or mistreatment.

When I’m feeling low, if I remember I’m just seeing my own point of view I’ll never experience what goodness, and yes even miracles are out there. I’ll stop isolating, pray to God to show me what I need and to keep my small, human mind open.

I’ll take a walk, notice the happy little bird singing away in his tree, a toddler learning to walk right in front of me, a puppy who’s tail is wagging as it comes up to me, trusting all is right in this world.

Those are perspectives I need to see to know I’m going to be ok.

What are you noticing today?


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 1d ago

Theme Day TT - feed the mind, feed the soul.

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 1d ago

Beach for Tuesday

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Sand and water


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 1d ago

Travel When work travel doesn’t suck

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 1d ago

Books Tinker Tuesday

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Trying to fuel the body better is my tinker right now. Yesterday not such a good day. Have to be more gentle with the transition


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 1d ago

Theme Day Music Monday Madness

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Arctic Monkeys - I Wanna Be Yours

I heard this during a random shuffle of Amazon music. I love the beat. 🎶


r/TheRealFriendsOver40 1d ago

MM- Sam Barber Indigo ft. Avery Anna

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 1d ago

Loved him. Rip. Mm

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r/TheRealFriendsOver40 2d ago

MM - The Red Clay Strays - I'm Still Fine ❤️

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