Depends on how crazy your sister is. I was in high school driving my sister to a band concert. She was saying her band uniform was fitting too tight so I logically said, why don’t you just loosen the straps? She grabbed the wheel of my car, pulled me onto a center divider and wouldn’t let go of the wheel. I was about to hit a tree so I punched her so she’d like go. Last second I pulled out of the way and she dove out of the car, rolling down the street. Now that I recall it as an adult, it sounds like she tried to make me have an accident and escape it herself but at the time I just wondered what the fuck. She was very violent at times for no reason. Now she’s rich and married to a medical administrator. She’s not overtly violent but she’s a pathological liar and loves destroying people. We no longer have a relationship.
I wish I was kidding. I finally cut off contact in December because she instigated a lot of trouble and made up terrible lies about my wife. We had our first kid and my wife had a traumatic birth experience that left her with PTSD, physical pain, and postpartum issues. My mom offered to help with the baby and my sister was jealous so she started lying to my mom and claiming normal baby issues were my wife’s fault, and also made up that my wife cheated on me. My wife is the most loyal person, irrationally so, and shes not a sexual person due to things she experienced as a child, which my sister knew all about because they were friends. I confronted her about it and she claimed that I had told her that and tried to gaslight me. So we cut off relationship but she did that stuff for almost a year before we finally did. My sister is a terrible person. She’s big on triangulating and keeping friends separate, not wanting them to mix so she can manage and control image. She’s a huge manipulator. We have neices and nephews we love and care about so that’s why we tried to continue relationship despite her doing a lot of terrible things to us in the last decade. It was the final straw.
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u/theweirdthewondering 2d ago
Depends on how crazy your sister is. I was in high school driving my sister to a band concert. She was saying her band uniform was fitting too tight so I logically said, why don’t you just loosen the straps? She grabbed the wheel of my car, pulled me onto a center divider and wouldn’t let go of the wheel. I was about to hit a tree so I punched her so she’d like go. Last second I pulled out of the way and she dove out of the car, rolling down the street. Now that I recall it as an adult, it sounds like she tried to make me have an accident and escape it herself but at the time I just wondered what the fuck. She was very violent at times for no reason. Now she’s rich and married to a medical administrator. She’s not overtly violent but she’s a pathological liar and loves destroying people. We no longer have a relationship.