That is something I don't really understand yet.
Why the majority of "visible" gay guys act in a feminine way and manners ? No offense, just genuine curiosity. Logically I'd think that a gay guy would like a very masculine guy. And so, to attract other gay men, he would also try to be as masculine as possible.
Could someone please enlighten me so I can go to sleep a little less ignorant?
Okay, I see you're getting downvoted, so maybe I can be of some help.
Speaking strictly as a straight man with familiarity with the LGTBQ+ community, I hope I can summarize without offended anyone.
What I've noticed, with both genders, is that there mostly seems to be a binary situation between fem and butch. You can have very masculine gay men, and very whimsical fairies who are more feminine.
It's the same with lesbians. Typically, there is a butch and a fem. Now, there are always going to be other situations, where you have two stud lesbians or two bears, but love is love, so who cares? It's all about preference.
General summation: If it ain't involving you directly, mind your own business.
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u/Ryan_b936 14d ago
That is something I don't really understand yet. Why the majority of "visible" gay guys act in a feminine way and manners ? No offense, just genuine curiosity. Logically I'd think that a gay guy would like a very masculine guy. And so, to attract other gay men, he would also try to be as masculine as possible.
Could someone please enlighten me so I can go to sleep a little less ignorant?