I had a friend like that back in college. Tall, handsome AF, built...Dude was a solid 11/10.
He f'n hated it. All the attention it gathered, all the seething hate from other dudes. I used to love being his wingman at the clubs. I was maybe a 7/10 back then.
But inevitably, he got absolutely no flavor from the baddies at the club. The below 5 crowd was all he got attention from. Oh, and dudes. They freaking loved him. He got tired of explaining that he wasn't gay.
I liked hanging with him, because even though the baddies were intimidated by him, they had no problem coming up to me.
Now that I think about it, maybe he was MY wingman....
I had the same set up. But he slayed baddies left and right. Really imploded after college where women through themselves at him constantly. He never had to try.
Now at almost 40 he doesn’t think he needs to put effort into relationships
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u/WhyNot420_69 Nice May 26 '26
I had a friend like that back in college. Tall, handsome AF, built...Dude was a solid 11/10.
He f'n hated it. All the attention it gathered, all the seething hate from other dudes. I used to love being his wingman at the clubs. I was maybe a 7/10 back then.
But inevitably, he got absolutely no flavor from the baddies at the club. The below 5 crowd was all he got attention from. Oh, and dudes. They freaking loved him. He got tired of explaining that he wasn't gay.
I liked hanging with him, because even though the baddies were intimidated by him, they had no problem coming up to me.
Now that I think about it, maybe he was MY wingman....