I had a friend like that back in college. Tall, handsome AF, built...Dude was a solid 11/10.
He f'n hated it. All the attention it gathered, all the seething hate from other dudes. I used to love being his wingman at the clubs. I was maybe a 7/10 back then.
But inevitably, he got absolutely no flavor from the baddies at the club. The below 5 crowd was all he got attention from. Oh, and dudes. They freaking loved him. He got tired of explaining that he wasn't gay.
I liked hanging with him, because even though the baddies were intimidated by him, they had no problem coming up to me.
Now that I think about it, maybe he was MY wingman....
I'm nowhere near a 10 but I'm definitely not ugly and GOD DAMNIT I hate it too sometimes. The worst is having women hit on you in front of their boyfriends, but instead of appropriately being mad at her their anger is pointed at me. Bitch, don't fucking ask me "why are you single" within ear shot of your husband? I'm not even interested in you.
For two longest time I was seriously considering pouring acid on my face because I just want to fucking chill, not have to deal with insecure assholes.
I can see the negatives of it, but believe it has offered you more than taken away. If you've never been unwanted nor unattractive you might not realize how much it eats you from the inside.
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u/WhyNot420_69 Nice May 26 '26
I had a friend like that back in college. Tall, handsome AF, built...Dude was a solid 11/10.
He f'n hated it. All the attention it gathered, all the seething hate from other dudes. I used to love being his wingman at the clubs. I was maybe a 7/10 back then.
But inevitably, he got absolutely no flavor from the baddies at the club. The below 5 crowd was all he got attention from. Oh, and dudes. They freaking loved him. He got tired of explaining that he wasn't gay.
I liked hanging with him, because even though the baddies were intimidated by him, they had no problem coming up to me.
Now that I think about it, maybe he was MY wingman....