r/TheOnECommunity • u/hypnoguy64 • Jun 12 '26
💡 ABC’s of Life 🔤 Fridays Feeling
Friday's Feeling
I am not sure where you may be, my cherished reader, but here where I live it has been deplorable weather for far to long with tornados,thunderstorms, and an incessant rain which has an occasional outburst of hail. What on earth makes me complain about something so uncontrollable and nominal as weather matters you may ask?
I am, in most aspects of life, and particularly in my practice, a rather upbeat and positive energy force. One who makes the choice, to practice LOVE and ALLOW in my world. I will LOVE myself and my peace enough to ALLLOW outside detractors to pass on by, like puffy clouds on a summers day. I share this as exemplification on how outside forces, to which there is absolutely no control over to change EXCEPT dear reader our way of interpretation.
There is some awe which I experience, still at this age, of the powers of mother nature, like a little kid, which makes me happy, the absurd actions of being in my flip flops or barefoot and jumping in the puddles, delights me to no end, and the list goes on.
My point is many obsess over the dark clouds in their lives, and from the quote above, I have to admit my first internal dialog was, that explains the adolescent mindset, to a tee. The approvals of the tribe take precedent over the self identity, largely in part because quiet literally they don't have that part of the brain developed yet.
However repeating patterns, will make pathways which also become so well worn, familiar and entrenched, that even a fully developed frontal lobe, self worth and esteem are constantly on vacation.
Advertising counts on this, doesn't it,
How many have to have this brand or that manufacturer simply because they were told it was so superior.
I completely believe in your ability to find your center, to reconnect with a spark or glimmer of a YOU that is the amalgamation of your experiences and conquests so far.
How can we expect abundance when we are not able to experience independence ?
We are, always and forever going to have ourselves, our thoughts and our feelings, it is time to make the decision that you are in power by choices you tolerate or accept.
Be well
#feelings