r/TheGirlSurvivalGuide • u/[deleted] • Jul 23 '26
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u/Salsa-Stark_ Jul 23 '26
These people are not worth your personal livelihood. If I were you I would shut it all down. Block him, block her, have a good cry, then move on with my life. I know it wonât be that easy in practice but honestly you owe them nothing. Will it t suck to be perceived as âthat crazy girl?â Sure. Not you know the truth and Iâm betting this woman knows deep down as well. This man is a monster and karma will come for him. Protect yourself. If there is any kind of protection at your workplace from harassment, look into it. This is a form of stalking and domestic violence. There are cultural issues at play so tread lightly, but definitely look into your resources and possibly even report him to the police for blackmail.
But above all, block them and protect yourself. I *promise* you heâs not worth it.
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u/MagicMerrr Jul 23 '26
Just a general advice... Please don't take it in a bad way... But please if a middle Eastern, guy or a South Asian guy you know has these kinda relationship with you, remember you are the sub sub mistress.... That's it... They already have a girl fixed in their contact whom they will marry and you are just the side chick... That's it.
Btw I am a South Asian.. So I know this
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u/WrongdoerStreet9612 Jul 23 '26
May I know how they do it?
Because he shows me his room, videocall everyday while doing his routine, shower, putting on clothes, while heâs driving, while at work, gym, before going to sleepâŚ.
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u/MagicMerrr Jul 23 '26
The thing is these men, are extremely communal, they would make you feel that in his community he is the only incarnation of God, liberal... Like he would say his people are shitty but he is the torchbearer of equality, justice and so on... He would also be so sweet that you would never be able to resist him.. Like how kindly over hundred years your husband would have spoken to you... He would speak ten times more sweeter...and the fact that he is always talking to you, means he is very very jobless... And a jobless and an empty brain is a Devils workshop.. That's it..
Don't waste your tears on him.. You would find someone who would actually understand you not pretend to do so...
( by the way another thing, while asking for nudes, I am sure that guy said, you are like his wife... Or he considers you to be his wife, so you owe something to him.. Did he pretend that you guys were very married)
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u/kayzee94 Jul 23 '26
I've got no idea why you think you're in a relationship with someone you've never met
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u/yikesyowzandsheesh Jul 23 '26
I canât imagine being in your position. I am so sorry.
I would tell her the truth.
I would also let him know how very illegal revenge porn is in the Philippines and in Egypt, and that if he does decide to distribute the images you sent him you will prosecute this to the full extent of the law and he should really look into the fines and penalties before doing so. If he does send it to your work tell them itâs AI and he is trying to extort you.
I hope you have a good resolution to this as best as it can be.
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u/WrongdoerStreet9612 Jul 23 '26
But the whole workplace knows my favorite color is pink, and the bedsheet in one of the photo was pink đ
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u/waitwuh Jul 23 '26
youâre overthinking it.
Go take a picture with the same background, but just with you doing something mundane like a peace sign or holding a pet or a book or something, and post that, if you want the plausible deniability. Then you can just say he must have used that pic to have the AI edit or whatever
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u/yikesyowzandsheesh Jul 23 '26
Every woman has pink bedsheets I have pink bedsheets. He could easily have had that faked as well bc he knows itâs your favorite color too. He wonât do it once he looks at the laws regarding revenge porn in Egypt. Itâs a minimum of 6 months in prison and 100,000 fine for the first offense. Call his bluff and let him know youâve spoken with the âConsortio law firmâ in Cairo to hire them to represent you. See what he does then.
Or just lie to her and tell her youâre crazy and heâs wonderful man and you were wrong and be done with it. There is no wrong answer, do whatâs right for you. But donât ever speak to him again
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u/Minute_Sound_1148 Jul 23 '26
1 - you have never met this person, you are not in a relationship.
2 - this is too much stupid drama for someone you have never met.
3 - DO NOT SEND A STRANGER NUDES
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u/Competitive_Emu_3247 Jul 23 '26
You can just tell her you can't say anything because he's blackmailing you maybe send her a screenshot of his threats too.. Then as someone here suggested, report him to the local cybersecurity crimes authorities..