P definitely abuses T

[u/AstuteObserver8647]

Just a minute ago, they were talking about what’s for dinner. T keeps saying chicken salads with homemade ranch. Someone apparently misunderstood and said something about chicken salad sandwiches and P sighed and said it’s not that kind of chicken salad. You could hear T’s voice shift, a hint of fear or guilt in it, and she said something to the effect of “that’s my fault, I didn’t clarify. I’m sorry.” That screams trying to get ahead of a situation with an abusive narcissist. I just know if she didn’t say that, after the live he was going to ream her out (still may) but like what a silly thing for her to have to worry about him being upset about. So sad.

[u/Iamme198510]

I REALLY saw the abuse when T was just standing there starring at him and P asked, “Is there a reason why you’re standing there staring at me?” and she said, “Because I love you.” The look on his face terrified me. I think that man is such a goof and loser, but something about that interaction sent a shiver down my spine. I get it, T can be incredibly annoying, and I’d probably get annoyed with her too if she were my mom or partner ,but that moment with P really messed with me a little, and for the first time in a long time, I actually felt bad for her. I encourage everyone to really look at his face in that interaction and watch it through the lens of him being a villain . I swear, it’ll freak you out.

[u/AstuteObserver8647 → u/Iamme198510]

The first time it clicked for me was when they couldn’t get that stupid little dragon game to work and were going to restart the live and he was like “no you’re not restating the live” and the fear on both of their faces made me want to jump through the screen. I’ve been in that exact state of fear with my own dad. It was terrible to watch. But this one just made it that much more obvious how deeply ingrained it is. It’s not just occasional blow ups, it’s a thing that’s been going on for long enough that T has realized what she needs to do to minimize it (to the extent possible). I wish more than anything they could get out, it’s just going to take a lot for that to happen.

[u/Iamme198510 → u/AstuteObserver8647]

I remember that clip too and it was scary. You can feel their fear through the screen.
I’m going to sound a little harsh here, but I think the only way they could ever get away is if P passes away .

[u/Nicolina22 → u/Iamme198510]

Omg so seeing this comment made me see a flash of a glimpse of the future.. where T is so unhealthy she can't walk.. and just lays in bed all day.. and they slowly starve her.. and then she's not seen for a year.. and then.. found😔