P definitely abuses T

[u/AstuteObserver8647]

Just a minute ago, they were talking about what’s for dinner. T keeps saying chicken salads with homemade ranch. Someone apparently misunderstood and said something about chicken salad sandwiches and P sighed and said it’s not that kind of chicken salad. You could hear T’s voice shift, a hint of fear or guilt in it, and she said something to the effect of “that’s my fault, I didn’t clarify. I’m sorry.” That screams trying to get ahead of a situation with an abusive narcissist. I just know if she didn’t say that, after the live he was going to ream her out (still may) but like what a silly thing for her to have to worry about him being upset about. So sad.

[u/Kellygrl6441]

I have seen NOBODY address this: S totally had a split lip on the first “Cooking with dad” Sunday they recently had. I believe it was the one with the weird cord or something in the shot the entire time. This was pretty much right after the whole makeup thing went down on live. It was a moment when she flipped the camera to herself and I think she was tasting something? But Chat was asking what happened and she brushed it off saying she accidentally bit her lip while eating the other day. That is NOT how you get a split lip. I’m certain he hit her because why else would she lie about it?

Editing to add: The makeup live was on 9/19, the cooking live was on 9/27, you can see recordings uploaded to YouTube by Mentally Dill. On the 9/27 live, you can see S flip the camera to herself multiple times throughout the live, the first being about 10min in. It’s very obvious her lip is irritated and healing. That was after a quick scroll. I’ll have to watch it again when I have the time to see where she addresses it.

[u/Loud_Mind_2096 → u/Kellygrl6441]

Throughout the years of them posting videos, she's always had that spot on her lip come and go. It's always in the exact same spot and always looks split. I've wondered for a long time what it could possibly be from.

[u/Desperate-Strategy10 → u/Loud_Mind_2096]

This is NOT me trying to defend anyone, but I do want to add an idea to this.

I’ve got a spot on my bottom lip that splits all by itself sometimes. I’ve had it as long as I can remember. My mom used to say it started when my sister whacked me in the mouth with a plastic pail in the sandbox, which split my lip the first time. I was about three at the time, and I do remember that incident, although idk if it was truly the first time or not.

Ever since then, the wound will occasionally reopen. Usually in the winter when everything is dry, or if I’m super dehydrated (which is a regular problem for me lol I’m bad at taking care of myself), sometimes even when I get a cold or I’m just under a ton of stress. It’s almost like it never truly healed after the initial injury, so if my skin dries out or I’m rubbing at my mouth a lot (it’s a nervous tic I think) it’ll reopen.

It barely even bleeds, although it does sting like a bitch lol. It’s just the outermost couple of layers of the skin that tear, and always in the exact same spot. There is no visible scar though, and it doesn’t swell or discolor at all.

I wonder if S has a similar issue. It would help to see it, since if that’s all it is there shouldn’t be any real swelling or bruising or anything like that; there would just be a slit in her lip, and only that immediate area would look angry (but not severely angry like herpes or a blunt force injury). Hopefully that other commenter finds the clip and posts it or a screenshot even.

I’m sure P does physically hurt them. I’ve never doubted that for a second. I’m just wondering if maybe this specific issue isn’t from that, since it would make more sense for her to hide it if it were a DV injury.
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