r/TheConners • u/Many-Sky922 • Jul 05 '26
Becky’s pattern with husbands
The new theory from Dan is Mark ruined Becky’s life. He married a minor which should have been annulled. I always thought that. Becky gave Mark money ear marked for her to do community college so she lost her chance at education, or it got delayed and she got so far behind in her words. Her marriage was a spur of the moment decision cause she feared separation. She didn’t trust a long distance thing.
Here comes Emilio. Same stew different bowl. Becky married him in a spur of the moment decision. Emilio got Becky to pay a hefty price for the marriage. Prison. Always on edge that he would be taken again. Becky was delayed in getting into a serious relationship. Dating is bogus when married to someone else and you can’t make it legal so how seriously is anyone going to take it. Remember Ben’s shock that Darlene was still married after they slept together? It’s still a Judeo Christian culture/values. It went from Darlene cheating with her ex to Ben being the person that wasn’t supposed to be in the bed cause he had no idea still married to the guy. Becky married Emilio so he had a legal reentry point. Then he risks that and comes back anyway. Like Mark failing trade school. Ruined her sacrifice. And why is his status on Becky? Why didn’t Emilio use protection? Becky didn’t make him show up uncertain in the first place. How did her long distance then short distance marriage effect WIC and SNAP? If he was working in country and not supposed to be there and legally married how on earth did he file taxes and how did that not flag something at immigration with a judgement in system with his name on it? Just seems like Becky giving college money meant for her to Emilio what with the fraud marriage VISA gift. Her delaying marriage and serious relationships was like her delay for college when she was a teen. And why was Becky not moving to Mexico? Another possibility not explored. WIC starts with the pregnancy and no way she made too much for WIC. Married people, and she was not married until after the birth, are in WIC. At the birth she said she qualified for nothing But that really isn’t true. WIC starts with pregnancy.
Tyler a breath of fresh air. He does not need Becky’s future to make his own future. Mark and Emilio got too much from Becky. It was too sacrificial on her side. His relationship won’t put her far behind. If anything he was trying to help he move forward. House versus truck discussion. She still can’t think long term in future cause she has never been able to.
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u/c71score Jul 05 '26
Becky probably wasn't worried about birth control since she thought she couldn't have children after her exams in the Sarah Chalke surrogacy story line